For Bednobs

[karenmac60]

Thinking of you xxx

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c9KHo9z86rA

[Lore]

Lovely, karen x

[Mamyalynne]

Don't tell me that you understand
Don't tell me that you know,
Don't tell me that I will survive
Or how I will surely grow.

Don't tell me that this is just a test
That I am truly blessed
That I am chosen for this task
Apart from all the rest.

Don't come at me with answers
That can only come from me,
Don't tell me how my grief will pass,
That I will soon be free.

Don't stand in pious judgment
Of the bounds I must untie,
Don't tell me how to suffer
And don't tell me how to cry!

My life is filled with selfishness,
My pain is all I see,
But, I need you now,
I need your love, unconditionally.

Accept me in my ups and downs,
I need someone to share,
Just hold my hand and let me cry,
And say, "My friend, I care."
♥♥♥

[Ric.ror]

REMEMBERING....
Go ahead and mention my child,
The one that died you know.
Don't worry about hurting me further.
The depth of my pain doesn't show.
Don't worry about making me cry,
I'm already crying inside.
Help me to heal by releasing
the tears that I try to hide.
I'm hurt when you just keep silent,
PRETENDING he didn't exist.
I'd rather you mention my child,
knowing that he has been missed.
You asked me how I was doing?
I say "pretty good" or "fine".
but healing is something ongoing.
I know it will take a lifetime.


~~Elizabeth Dent~~

[boxtops]

These are lovely sentiments - bednobs, if you are reading this, we are all here for you and mr b.