Too loud, I dont think that anyone meant anything sarcastic. If you are taking exception to google is your friend I think you are too sensitive. Google is terrific for specifics like this, which is where I found the link above. On here there are few real lawyers, though I am sure some of the posters are. All you will get is informed opinions. If you dont want opinions then you are on the wrong site. Hope that it all turns out alright for you in the difficult field of bringing up teenagers. One of these days he will be an adult, so it doesnt last forever. Good luck and dont judge this site too harshly.