I'm the type of person whon always sends cards to people, even if I don't get one back - it's just the way I am. But what do you do if somebody has been really vile, and you know its their birthday very soon. Would you rise above it and send a card anyway, or would you deliberatley not send one this time?
Maybe a sarky card with no stamp on.....would make me feel happier than no card at all! I make and send lots of cards so like you Smow I always send even if I don't receive so know what you mean.
If it's a temporary blip that will get sorted - I'd send a card
If it's serious then I wouldn't bother
If I was my brother I'd send a really mean hurtful card
Well i was in similar situ a while ago im sure i asked here...
Remember? Babys 1st birthday. Babys mum had been vile to me. I sent card with £10 in as that was all i could afford with not working. Didnt even get a thank you. No text, nothing.
Other mate who has been siding with bitch pal...was her babys birthday on wed. For the past 12yrs we have exchanged gifts for birthdays u till this year she didnt even get me a card (but got a "new" mate she barley knows a gift!!!!!) i was gutted. Her babys birthday this week. I have sent an empty card. For her birthday though she can kiss my @rse.
Infact she txt to say thanks and i didnt bother texting back. Seeing everyone gathered to celebrate but not me when i havent done anythinh is hurtfull. Had to actually get her new adress from a mate :0/ xx
Heres me ranting and not answering. Not sure smow. Im leaning towards NO in your case. Or if you do send one it will be empty!!! And shortly written. X
I wouldn't send one, but then I have no kids so maybe I don't know what I'm talking about. I wouldn't send one to a sibling or maybe even a parent if they'd hurt and annoyed me.