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richfinch | 09:04 Thu 29th May 2008 | Relationships & Dating
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hi, im single, and have recently met a young lady that takes my fancy, but shes my grandads brothers granddaughter - is that ok / allowed etc? or is it too close a family member to date
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Its not illegal so entirely up to you, I just wouldnt date anyone I was related too as even if cousins are legal I know somewhere down the line they have same blood
You are permitted to have relationships with cousins or beyond. This young lady is a more distant cousin (second, half, removed or something) and there is no bar on such a relationship. Good luck to you both.
second cousin... that's legal and not so close that people will raise their eyebrows, if that's what you're worried about.
That's something like '2nd cousin once removed' so as 4get says it's not illegal, but,again as 4get says, I wouldn't.

Did youb grow up knowing she's related? I mean, are you a close family who get together often? If you've known your related since you were kids and grew up together that may cause problems and friction within your families, in fact your relationship may cause you both to re-evaluate your family dynamics anyway. There was a report on Radio 4 last week about this subject and several couples in the same situation as you no longer have anything to do with their immediate families so be prepared.

That said, I wish you and your partner all the best and that you both are very happy together

I guess its a kind of hang on we have the same great grandfather
2nd cousin. Some may frown, but it's not illegal... though if you speak in terms of 'takes my fancy' you don't sound the type to cross such boundaries? I may be wrong of course.
Do you both play the banjo by any chance?
at least if you get married the guest list will be shorter as youre alll sharing relatives.

brides side or grooms side ?

oh middle lol
nahhh..... i wudn't do it..... errrr, i think ur kids mite have 3 arms n stuff like that.... plenty more fish in the sea, you don't have to be swimmin round your own pond.
Second cousins. Not a problem in any way.

Indeed recent research has shown that the rate of child mortality among children born of first cousins is only 1.2% higher than unrelated parents. With second cousins it will be even lower.

http://www.newscientist.com/channel/health/mg1 9826574.100-ban-on-firstcousin-marriges-not-ne cessary.html
i think you should leave the village and try dating people you aren't related to.

like everyone says, not illegal....but eeewwwww.

unless your wanting mutated children with chicken beaks and lobster hands....only kidding! lol

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