When we die............

[Im a BusyBee]

does our body loose a lot of fluid ie whereever someone dies there will be a mess? if the answer is yes, why is this?

[Bathsheba]

Aaw, Busy, are you having morbid thoughts hun?
Did you manage to get things sorted today? Hope so x

[stompe]

Cheer up! its christmas

[dot.hawkes]

well yes of course, if you are dead you can't control your bodily functions very well can you?

[Schutzengel]

No. Not with a normal death.

[Im a BusyBee]

i ask for a reason - and just so you know my mother in law died yesterday. so i think we skipped christmas

[Im a BusyBee]

so dot in nursing homes and such like whenever someone passes away they have a big mess to clear up?

[dot.hawkes]

That's sad Busy Bee, but there wasn't a clue in your post, you did kind of ambush us

[yummymum]

i have worked in many nursing homes and ive heard people burp and ive known them to empty themselves just before they die but never once they have died but im no expert so it probably does happen

[stompe]

Sorry to hear BB, Would she want you to celebrate her life and look down on you all happy!

[Schutzengel]

So sorry Busybee, about your mother-in-law. Death of a family member is always hard, but especially so at Christmas.

[Bathsheba]

Aaw, Busy, don't trouble yourself with morbid thoughts- it's only her shell that is left- she is peaceful and happy now x

[devil99]

you do loose control of your bowels when you pass away_ sorry about your MIL bee xx

[trt]

BusyBee,

You say:

So i think we skipped Christmas, you either, did or you didn't?

[Im a BusyBee]

well obviously it was christmas day and boxing day they could not be by passed, we went through the motions but there was no christmas spirit or joy whatsoever