found my daughter on facebook

[todoronron]

so basically I havent seen my 13 year old daughter since she was 4. I have been constantl looking for her on the web. Anyway what I do know is that her mum has remarried and I know the city where they live and even the school my daughter goes to. Basically I found my daughter on facebook and made a false profile as a girl and added her. She accepted my friend ship and asked me who I was. I just said sorry I thought I knew you or you parents. By the way her last name has changed from mine to her mothers husbands name. I asked her if she ever changed her last name and thats how I knew her and she said no. I then said oh ok then is 'dave' (her mothers husband) your dad? After that question she removed my friendship.

I found her dad also on FB and have messaged him saying I do not want anything only to know she is doing ok and for her to have the option to see me if she wants. The fat tub of lard (yes he is really really fat) did not message me back.

I do not want to get directly intouch with my daughter as its a critical age it could really mess her up if she doesnt know I exist.

I dont know what to do next. Any tips?

[jackthehat]

That's the one, snags.

I'm sure I've got it around here somewhere....;o)

[snags]

Well if you can't find it I have it...

[NoMercy]

Let's see it then...

[pips1]

How do you lot know who people are by their new names? - it amazes me!!

[donna1901]

why is your daughter not with u? have i missed the point??

[Mick-Talbot]

don't expect an answer donna.

http://www.theanswerb...k/members/todoronron/

[karenmac60]

The poster is the girl's father and he is not with the girl's mother. He has not seen his daughter in 9 years and her mum has since remarried and changed the daughter's surname. He has had no contact since she was 4 and he has now tracked her down on Facebook.

[factor-fiction]

Yes, according to his profile todoronron's status has been changed to 'suspended'

[jackthehat]

He ought to be 'suspended'............quite by what I couldn't possibly mention.