Sons 21st

[Im a BusyBee]

my son is 21 tomorrow and he isnt interested in doing anything to celebrate it at all, i know its real short notice now but ive been trying to think of something to do for him but cant come up with anything! can anyone help me please?

[jen78]

Does he live with you?

How about a nice breakfast in bed, a good fry up or something he'd really like?

If he's in for tea maybe cook his favourite meal as well?

[B00]

It's my daughters 21st in August and she's said she doesnt want a party or a 'do' either (aren't they bloody miseries? LOL)

Anyhoo....we've said we'd take her out for a meal, I know it's not that special a thing to do, but you just can't let the occasion go totally un-marked can you? Besides, it's all downhill for them after that ;-)

[mrs_overall]

Is he at work tomorrow?
If not, take him out for the day and take him iceskating/shopping trip/cinema/lunch etc

[Bbbananas]

Money. that's all they're interested in at that age. Oh, and sex - but I assume that will not be on the agenda! Just bung him some money' he'll be happy.

[gbradfield]

do just that....................or at least let him think that your not doing anything and arrange all his friends to get together at his local on the weekend,

[zzxxee]

well if he doesnt want to do anything thats his choice after all he is 21 just cook him a nice meal at home and give him a nice keepsake type prezzie you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink, if he doesnt want to do anything so be it ...

[Im a BusyBee]

thanks for your help between us we've come up with something.we've already got him a little sony cd system thing for his room as his old one wont load cd's anymore - its years old and well used anyway he'll have that this evening. But hes now asked for us all to go up the local and for us to buy him a few beers, im sure loads of his mates will be there as its pool night and we are having a chinese takeway before we go (which is more of a treat for us as i usually cook nice, good meals anyway). Not so exciting but its what he wants!

[afcjan]

hope u have a lovely day celebrating with yr son tomorrow. often their choices arent our choices, so its his day and u r only 21 once. I hope you all enjoy it.