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B00 | 14:59 Thu 08th Nov 2007 | Pregnancy
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As quite a few of you know, my daughter was expecting twins, however we were recently advised that she was having what is termed a Mono-amniotic pregnancy, and that the outcome wasn't great. During her fortnightly scan yesterday we were told that both babies had died.

She has now got to wait until Saturday to be admitted to the delivery suite at the hospital where she will be given a pessary (sp) every 3 hours to bring on labour.

She has- to all our horror, got to delivery these babies as normal.

I've pondered since yesterday whether to make this post, however as a few of of you knew about her pregnancy and the difficulties involved I thought it right to let you know.

I'm not really a praying person, but since yesterday I have been doing- I honestly don't know how we're going to get through Saturday and the weeks/months to follow.

If anyone feels this post is a bit too depressing, feel free to report it, it has however helped slightly to write it down.

Thanks for listening.
Boo
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dear boo, really sorry to hear your news, i will be thinking of you today, give all our love to your family, it's so tragic i really feel for all of you xxx rebecca
Thoughts and love to you and your family today BOO. xx
Yeah, I'm checking in all over the place with ya too. You're in my thoughts petal.
Been thinking of you, your daughter & family this morning BOO.

Love Smudge. -xx-
BOO
Been in my thoughts today, as with all other abers.
Although there is nothing anyone can do to improve your awful situation, just to let you and your family know, we are all thinking of you all and in our prayers. xx
I'm thinking of you also BOO hon.

Al xx
B00 I hadn't posted on this thread, just because I didn't really think there was much else I could add, sentiment-wise and offering sympathies seems quite hollow somehow. I can't begin to imagine what you must be going through.
I hope all went well today and that you, your daughter and the rest of the family are coping as well as can be expected. You have a lot of support on here. x
I'm so sorry for your daughter and her family. This happened to my sister a few years ago on Christmas Eve - it was a horrible time, but she's come through it. She named him and had a funeral and everything. Just stay strong....
So sorry to hear of your very sad news, your mind must be in a turmoil it must be terrible for you all. My best wishes and thoughts. g
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Not much of an update....

First I'd like to thank you all for your further really kind messages, means so much to me.

We arrived at hospital this morning- and I left her there with the boyfriend about an hour ago, still nothing so far despite 3 pessaries given. I had to come home to see to Mini Boo and daughter's cat.

If I don't get a call to go back at some point tonight, im back again there in the morning (I'm only 15 minutes away).

Seems rather strange that things could happen on Remembrance Sunday.

Thank you everybody, V V, thanks for the links, I can't bring myself to open them yet, but I will eventually.
Bless you BOO & all.

I do hope you'll all manage to get a little sleep at some stage tonight.

Big cuddle for Mini BOO. -xx-
Hope you get a fairly decent sleep tonight BOO.
I also hope the ordeal that your daughter is going through is over as quickly as possible, for everyone's sake.
Take care. xx
Nite nite BOO, we may all just be cyber friends, but friends we are. Try to rest. I'll be thinking of your daughter and her boyfriend too. xx for Mini Boo, bet she's confused.
Boo: Thank you for your kind words. I do hope you will open them as I feel you may find 'some' comfort, especially as people attempt to interact with you and your daughter.

Again, if there is anything I may do. I am here for you

I have held your daughter in my prayers today and shall again do so in my Compline tonight.

Fr Bill
Boo your post caught my eye on the recent posts section. I am so sorry to hear such sad news, cant imagine what you, your daughter, her boyfriend and the rest of the family are going through. You sound such a great caring mum, Im thinking and praying for you all and the two little angels you have lost. x
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Boo,I've been away all week and have just seen your awful news.I'm so sorry..
I know this is abit late,but I send you lots of love & hugs!!
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I've just caught this BOO -thinking of you at this very trying time.Be strong xxx

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