I gave up a stressful job because i would not have been able to do it once i had my baby. I still work for the same company but got a job which was more enjoyable and stress free. I asked to do part time,as i returned to work when my son was 4 months old but due to the job requirements, i had to work full time. My mum has him 2 days and family friend who is also a reg childminder, has him 3 days. Luckily, i can start late and finish early. My baby is very happy, sometimes i feel guilty but i am planning to cut my hours in a few months. A happy mum means a happy baby-good luck curious79