son and diapers

[ashley01583]

i was in my sons room the other day getting dirty laundry together. i picked up his gym bad to get his dirty clothes out of it and inside i found a bag of adult diapers, 4 used ones and some baby things. what should i do?

[Lonnie]

First, I wouldn't mention it to him, he may never want to face you again, there are quite a few possible reasons, of which this site is just one, but he could genuinely be incontinent, and assuming he's an adult, doesn't want to say anything.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilic_infant ilism

[devilwoman]

is he a schoolboy or an adult, whichever i would absolutly freak out, WHAT THE HELLS GOING ON i would ask myself, theres something weird happening here and yes i would definatly ask him about it.

[ashley01583]

he is 17. and the day after i found that bag i went through his room and found another bag with a bag of goodnites for girls, a couple used ones, some bras and panties, other girls clothes and some tampons.

[oldwoman]

Ashley how do you feel about this. I would be worried about where he is getting these girls things from. Unfortunately life is not black and white like we would hope it to be , but I think you are going to need a lot of support from somewhere.

[ashley01583]

i don't really know how to feel yet. the girls clothes look new like he just bought them

[oldwoman]

Are you bringing him up on your own, not that my husbands much use anyway.Have you no one you can confide in as this is a lot to carry on your own.

[ashley01583]

yes i am bringing him up on my own

[oldwoman]

It is not something I have come across before. Will he talk to you if you ask him about it.

[ashley01583]

i don't know if he will talk. i'm thinking if he wants to acted like a babygirl i might treat him like one

[oldwoman]

I think this is more to do with his sexual feelings. I wish I could be of more help. Could you discuss it with a doctor.