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thanks for the sensible answers ....... and no im not one of the people who look for handouts just needed info on what we could get if needed ..... and if we are getting married is that the right thing to do in your perfect little world you live in and not the real world have a word with yourself u fool ......... i could afford to keep them both but if needed sum help why shouldnt i have a bit of help iv worked since i was 16 never been out of a job and never clamid any help of goverment and paid in to the system...... thank you