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as the absent parent to my 6yr old son, does his father who has custody of him have the right to not let me know were he is living please
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i have got legal advise and it is all over now i am being told by social services that i have to sort it out and communicate with my ex to arrange contact, i have brought my oldest two children from a previous marriage up very well and adjusted and in further education, i was not married to my youngests sons father, and what i have done with my life does not matter to social servies or the court as they are no longer envolved, i have never cheated lied or been abusive, but because my son witnessed his dad doing it to me, and because he lied to the police courts and social services this is what they based there decision on even tho my ex has been to prison for abh but it was a long time ago, thanks for not helping and goodbye
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aprile, I am struggling to believe your story also
Your son and you made history when he was removed from your care for being overweight - do you have a link to the news article?
You have/had supervised access? Who said you must cut it back to 6x a year?
I do not believe your son was taken away for not attending nursery at times; it just wouldn't happen
Your ex may well be a 'charmer' but court officers and Social workers that must have been assigned to your case will have had dealings with this type of person and can see right through them, believe me I know for a fact they can.
Your ex cannot change contact without the permission of the court -take your case back to court
Who has told you you have no rights to know where your son is living?
At 6 years old, your son will have been questioned by SS on more than one occasion - did he stick to his 'lies'?
You either need to push for a new hearing or change your legal advise - something somewhere is going wrong if you are telling the truth
Your son and you made history when he was removed from your care for being overweight - do you have a link to the news article?
You have/had supervised access? Who said you must cut it back to 6x a year?
I do not believe your son was taken away for not attending nursery at times; it just wouldn't happen
Your ex may well be a 'charmer' but court officers and Social workers that must have been assigned to your case will have had dealings with this type of person and can see right through them, believe me I know for a fact they can.
Your ex cannot change contact without the permission of the court -take your case back to court
Who has told you you have no rights to know where your son is living?
At 6 years old, your son will have been questioned by SS on more than one occasion - did he stick to his 'lies'?
You either need to push for a new hearing or change your legal advise - something somewhere is going wrong if you are telling the truth
it is the absolute truth all what i have said, plus dont forget my son witnessed the physical abuse my partner put upon me, i have said all along that it seemed like a test case for ss, i never thought i got the right kind of support from my solicitor and i fort tooth and nail and at the last court hearing i begged and pleaded for her to not give my ex's ex wife and now his partner again residence rights,
i am now going to email my old solicitor.i have been told by social services that my ex does not have to give me his address or any contact number, the courts decided that i shud only see my son 6 times a year. i was seeing him twice a week , but when they moved my boy from foster care to his dads they told me i could only see my boy once a week, to give him the chance to adjust, then like i said the court then said 6 times a year. i wish i could show you the papers and the reasons why then u would see how unbelievable it all is.one day i hope i wake from this nightmare, my son seems happy and i thank god that he is and i also pray to god that my ex has changed like ss say and that he does put our son first and does all he can for him.thankyou
i am now going to email my old solicitor.i have been told by social services that my ex does not have to give me his address or any contact number, the courts decided that i shud only see my son 6 times a year. i was seeing him twice a week , but when they moved my boy from foster care to his dads they told me i could only see my boy once a week, to give him the chance to adjust, then like i said the court then said 6 times a year. i wish i could show you the papers and the reasons why then u would see how unbelievable it all is.one day i hope i wake from this nightmare, my son seems happy and i thank god that he is and i also pray to god that my ex has changed like ss say and that he does put our son first and does all he can for him.thankyou
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watched wormwood scrubs last night and the prisoner was able to make a recording of himself reading a bed time story, guess what i asked the social services if i could do this for my little boy who his father reported as to having nightmares and i was told no way, instead they sent along a child therapist. i seem to have less rights then a prisoner.
And what about the rights of HIS children?
I watched it too, yes he was allowed to tell a story for his children on tape but it's not as good as them having their dad there, is it? Do you think his children have no rights then? It was done for them for the most part and to keep him on the straight and narrow
His children have as much right as yours to see their dad as yours do to see you
Don't compare you case to another, especially one like the one you saw. It is a completely different set of circs. It will not help you to see your child again - seeing someone who is versed in the law will
I watched it too, yes he was allowed to tell a story for his children on tape but it's not as good as them having their dad there, is it? Do you think his children have no rights then? It was done for them for the most part and to keep him on the straight and narrow
His children have as much right as yours to see their dad as yours do to see you
Don't compare you case to another, especially one like the one you saw. It is a completely different set of circs. It will not help you to see your child again - seeing someone who is versed in the law will
all i was stating is that when i asked several months ago if i could do a similar thing got my child i was told no i couldnt, who are you to judge me, in my last post i never judge anyone so were are you getting all this from, why dont you try asking me what i think and i would tell you how i thought it to be a wonderful ide hence why i thought of it several months before watching the tv programe, i was just making a comment as to how i am not allowed to do it, perhaps i should become a criminal then i would be able to do this, please keep your judgments to yourself as there is only one person who is allowed to judge me
Aprile, you asked and everyone told you how it is
There are questions abundant for you to answer and you have not - I certainly did not judge you, I told you not to compare your story with that of another. Each is different and has it's own merits.
You were told no, so please tell us why? Remember we can only guess at the other side to the story, and absent parents are not kept form their children without good cause and reason no matter how 'charming' someone is
There is nothing to stop you recording a story on tape if that's what you wish to do. You do it then store it until the day your son comes to see you again. The same with Xmas and birthday presents - buy them and then give them once you see your child again. Save money for him in a b/a for when he is old enough to seek you for himself and you do all this because you are not allowed to see him a lot so you wanted him to know that you never stopped thinking of him or loving him
How dare YOU judge anyone here - we didn't put our cards out on the table for all to read, you did - my last word on the matter
There are questions abundant for you to answer and you have not - I certainly did not judge you, I told you not to compare your story with that of another. Each is different and has it's own merits.
You were told no, so please tell us why? Remember we can only guess at the other side to the story, and absent parents are not kept form their children without good cause and reason no matter how 'charming' someone is
There is nothing to stop you recording a story on tape if that's what you wish to do. You do it then store it until the day your son comes to see you again. The same with Xmas and birthday presents - buy them and then give them once you see your child again. Save money for him in a b/a for when he is old enough to seek you for himself and you do all this because you are not allowed to see him a lot so you wanted him to know that you never stopped thinking of him or loving him
How dare YOU judge anyone here - we didn't put our cards out on the table for all to read, you did - my last word on the matter
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