Grow up?

Yeah and find someone in your 'league'

first of all, no one is out of anyones league. I can never work out what mrsinci is doing going out with a munter like me. Until you ask him, you will not know. Second of all, who cares if others ar aftter him, what counts is who gets him. if they all think like you do then he is spending a lot of lonely evenings. and finally, you need to improve your self esteem. if he is really so shallow to let reputation affect his relatiohnships lik e that you dont want to go out with him anyway. Ask.

Honestly this is a Crush - a prelude to you finding out what it is to love someone for real. It is a painful learning exp[erience. Know this is probably not at all what you want to hear but this will go away.... we have all been there at some point. Good Luck for the future where you are a strong in control woman who can get whomsoever she wants.... Forgive if i patronise but i am a oldie at 34.....