men

[squidgybumbu]

the thing is i am living with some one but im in love with some one else,the other person does not live close by we used to talk alot on fone and text but it slowed down. i cannot stop thinking bout this man i want to be with him but i do not know if i shud tell him or not.we have not talked for a while and he could be with some one else now.my boyfriend wants us to get married but while i feel the way i do i wont just incase there is a chance of being with this other man what should i do im feeling really depressed over it all.

[4getmenot]

whether this man is anyone or not you are wanting to be with this other man. Are you sating if you find out he is taken you will stay with your current bloke? Thats not really on is it, staying with him as a reserve

[squidgybumbu]

i love both men but in different ways

[4getmenot]

but it isnt fair to keep your current hanging on if you would jump at chance if other was single. I was inlove with my ex and always will be but you're right there is different love and my current bloke I love in a different way, but I know if my ex was single (actually he is now) I wouldnt ever go back to him. But if I got to thinking that I would if there was a chance that would be reason enough for me to finish with my current bloke. Things changed you've moved on and he probably has too, he wont be the same man you fell for.

[squidgybumbu]

well i guess grass isnt always greener on other side then time to delete his number now then

[4getmenot]

Yes if you are happy now why look for some excuse to ruin that. xx

[squidgybumbu]

thanks for advice xx

[country_boy]

Think twice about marrying him if you're having feelings like that for someone else. Recipe for disaster I reckon. I know where you're coming from but it doesn't sound like current guy is "the one". Hope you work out who/what you really want.