Would you tell her?

[sarnieken]

My question is this.

If you knew that your girlfriend (who is pregnant with your child) had lied about a previous relationship with someone who she still had regular contact with, would you say anything?

Also, the previous relationship was an affair and was only ended because he wouldn't leave his girlfriend.

I know that if I say anything then it will probably destroy us and I wouldn't do that to my child. I strongly believe that both parents should be around.

Thanks in advance.

[Reverandfunk]

mate there is more to it than meets the eye.

If someone keeps texting u and being a nuisance, you tell them to f*** off, you don't text back. Why would she be getting upset when you mention it to her?

[sarnieken]

4getmenot.
the bits about 'discovered' and 'heard' are because she has never told me herself.
I found out about the s*x at work when an email between the two of them about it got stuck in the ether and hit the failed delivery items folder that I look after as a member of the IT staff.

If I hadn't found it then i would never have known.

[4getmenot]

Please talk to her say exatclt what you have to us that you want to look forward to raisng your child together with no surrounding issues.

[4getmenot]

sorry exactly. I type too fast

[sarnieken]

Thank you for your help everyone.

It has been a real help talking to unbiased impartial people. I know my friends and family would have told me to just walk away, heck, I would have.

Have decided to carry on but make it known that I want no other issues. I can learn not to be paranoid but she has to stop giving me reason to be.

Will see how it goes and take it one day at a time.

thanks everyone.
K

[4getmenot]

Good for you, keep us updated. We may impartial but we are nosy ******* too. :-)

[4getmenot]

that was BlOOdy I havent got that filthy a mouth