I have recently split up with my boyfriend. It was a mutual agreement, however he has started saying things like "i want the necklace I bought you last christmas back" etc. My question is, is this a reasonable request or just downright childish? TIA xx
If it was bought for you last Christmas, I would say it was childish ? Maybe you should both write a list of everything you want back from each other, and then that would be an end to it. But you would have to agree to it, both of you. Has he bought you lots of expensive things in the past, and may now be regretting it, feeling he has spent too much of his money. But I still think it is childish.
Childish. You can't take gifts back from people you were once in a realtionship with in the same way you can't take back the time you spent with them. I'd ignore him.
He has lent me money to buy a car and laptop, but has always got it back. The necklace was a gift for christmas and I spent just as much on him, on a holiday that I can't take back because we broke up. xx
Personally i think hes being childish.But if you think returning the necklace would keep him out of your hair then its just a matter of what you would prefer .The necklace or the unwanted attention?
We've been on speaking terms anyway, before this, as it was amicable, but now he just seems to be childish. There was another ridiculously childish thing he tried stopping me from taking, but won't go into that haha xxx
I just don't know what to do about it, part of me wants to just think bugger it let him keep it, another part of me thinks why should he keep it to sell when it was a present to me. xx
I have VHG and his response is simply no. I have thought of with holding 300 pound from money that I owe him, which I am paying him when I get paid this month xx