If your daughter told you she was going to be an escort what would you advise say ??

[stephanie12]

thoughts plz ?? xx

[suzie1]

thats good, you must be so sad cazzz. is that the only thing you have read about, that was on ab a while ago you silly sausage, i have read many more interesting things than that!!!

[B00]

cazzz- eh?

I'm actually surpised at some of the childish replies given here. Ok yeah No know, i expect them from him, can't expect any better, but some of the others?

[cazzz1975]

sorry, suzie has got one on her this evening, I couldnt resist..

[stephanie12]

shes a fabulous looking girl and very confident and thinks this will pay her way through law school ........ I am it seems a bad mother if i allow her to do this and worst still in her eyes if i stand in her way ...... surely there is someone out there who can advise ....... the pit falls etc ... true hun i cant stop her but would rather be on her side .....i only wish i could go to the bank nd draw the cash she needs to stop this but i cant .....a good freind told me about this site and told me the majority of you are stars in ur own right and real helpful ... some of course are not ... but thats life .. :(
yeahh im sure gonna slap my 25 yr old girl silly .. thats realy gonna make me be her best mate NOT ... I am proud that i have got this type of relatioship with my daughter that she can tell me before hand this is what she plans to do .......so i can try and help her and ensure her safety etc ty ladies for all ur possitive comments these threads are blessed by u all xxx

[suzie1]

cazzzz get a life!!!! and redhelen im not on the wine again

[stephanie12]

thank you red xx

[cazzz1975]

I agree totally with redhelens advice stephanie, good luck x

[Barmaid]

1) you are not a bad mother
2) has she tried approaching one or two of the big banks. They will provide career development loans for people intending to be lawyers. Some of the larger legal firms (and I mean the really big ones) will take on people for typing pools or paralegal work. OK, so its not as well paid, but she'll get more experience.
3) If she is going to law school, she can jolly well expect to work long long hours into the early hours - how is that going to sit when the agency calls and says "client tonight be there 8.30" when she has a 3000 word essay on privity of contract due in the following day?

I am not suggesting you try and stop her, but if you mention alternatives that is constructive.

[stephanie12]

ty cazz xxxmuch love

[suzie1]

u might know it

[tamborine]

Since she has the good sense to earn rather than just be the local freebie, she will choose the company she trusts. Our local is exceptionally discreet & never takes clients home; seems she has a regular room booked in hotel.

Most women are on their backs for income.....sorry I mean England ;)

[Booldawg]

The dangers are the lifestyle that goes along with it. It does seem an easy, quick way to earn cash; especially if you're a student. Often its difficult to get away from the lifestyle as you get used to the money. Drug use is rife as a means of coping with the whole scenario of what you're doing.

I should imagine its the kind of experience that could really mess your mind up, the emotional struggle with what you're doing, the unsavoury physical experiences you'd have to go through. All these will need to be taken into consideration; not for the faint hearted!

[stephanie12]

barmaid hun ...... have looked into all these directions and no one wants to know at the age of 25 she is a mature student so to speak they only offer such to younger students etc without going into detail ....she has another 2 years to go yet and this has to be funded by student or family ......... does anyone like busty blondes lol mature etc gawddddddddd x

[Barmaid]

I started my law degree when I was 25. I funded mine by doing exactly that. Don't go to the high street branches. Go the the ones in the legal centres - such as Temple Bar.

The alternative is that she could do her degree part time and hold down a full time job. It will just take her a year longer to qualify.

[stephanie12]

boold hun im having a panick attack here ....... i adore both my kids and there she lays in her bed alseep with her james morrisson tribute pics on her wall and o2 festival pics of mates and herself im gutted at what lies ahead .... but need to help her right now and i dont know how to do this ...........
I will sleep on this and no doubt come back to a barrage of abuse .......ni night all xx

[stephanie12]

barmaid ..... will look into this tomorrow hun ty xxx v helpful

[cherrychapstick]

Well if she has it in her head to do it ,all you can do is stand by her ,tell her you are frightened for her but if it is what she wants to do you will be there ...i know she is 25 but ask that if she is going to do it to let you know where she will be going and the occasional text to let you know she is ok and you will be fine with that (maybe you won't but tell her that )