i need advice

[need_help]

i have lost interest in everything. no interest in studies. i feel it doesn't help my self growth anyway. i have become stubborn. i dont like society. i dont like to go out. nothing fascinates me. i have low self esteem. always thinking. scared of future. i know there are many who are in worse conditions than mine. but still it does not make me feel fortunate. i miss something. i'm going nowhere. my mind is always blank. i have friends. but i cant open up with them. i feel guilty for wasting my life. i cant decide what is right for me. what is my problem? can someone help me?

[Sqad]

Easy...you are a "normal woman" or an "abnormal man"

[cazzz1975]

sounds like depression to me, dont live with it, see your gp

[joggerjayne]

I was going to reply to this question, but I've lost interest.



=0)

[TTG]

Do charity work for a while. There are lots of people that need help. Brightening the lives of people who are not as fortunate as yourself will make you feel good.

[Mamyalynne]

I agree with cazz, go to doctor and explain how you feel. Please accept it is not a sign of weakness to admit you cannot cope.

M

[Sqad]

Question is too well written, too trite too well thought out to come from a depressive.

It is a "windup"

[daffy654]

It does read like a 'text-book' description of depression actually Sqad.
But just in case the OP is genuine he or she needs to see their GP.

[Seadragon]

Your problem is too many I's combined with too many negatives - 'I don't like, I can't, I feel guilty....' Ending with questions. Your first step is to change the way you view yourself. You admit to having low self-esteem, now do something about it.

[tamborine]

you're on here so get in the loop with this lot, NLP.....most are raving about it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2nAqRjEgd0

[Seadragon]

P.s - You should try watching the film 'Yes Man' - Jim Carrey's. It is funny and it may touch a nerve.

[blackeyed]

you seem aimless dear.the same happened with me a few years back.I just had to pull myself together by myself as i was a major introvert(i still am),and i didn't have anybody to whom i can't open up.My life seem wasted but i made it my point that if i don't want to live for myself i am gonna live for others to whom i am important.
I started making my mother happy by doing little things for her.I started looking at the positive things in my life,started to try to see the good side of people aroundme, started to smile a little more .!And lastly i dedicated myself to my studies and my family.And trust me it worked!

[ann_h]

Sqad, actually the question is not well written at all, although it does provide plenty of information.
Furthermore it is entirely possible for someone with either acute or chronic depression to construct detailed and coherent descriptions of their feelings.
Off for my meds now :)