May be you're lucky enough

[Sachs]

to have your parents still with you? I took my mum to a medical research thing today, something she decided to sign up to unknown to me. I had my concerns as I'd taken her to a bone density screening a while back, subsidised by the Uni that didn't include trying anything dubious trial wise. Anyway, no probs, I'll be with her on her next visit. What I meant to say is, how suddenly you realise they've become more fragile. She took my arm, choked me a bit. Are your parents still alive & do you have a good relationship with them?

[Leggalyblond]

mum yes

dad gone 10 years .

me and my mum get on great.

though she is a parent and still can be a pain : o)

[Bbbananas]

What a nice post Sachs.

Yes - both my parents are still alive and I am fortunate to have a very good relationship with them. I absolutely worship my dad. He's 80 and very fit for his age - but I know the day I lose him I will be absolutely devastated and bereft - he is my absolute hero.

My mum's a real sweetie - I can't say I feel quite so strongly about her as my dad, though obvviously I love her.

They have both been great parents and I am so pleased I got the opportunity at Dad's 80th party to stand up and make a speech to tell them such. These things need to be said before it's too late.

Wow - this is my only serious post of the day so far - and I mean every word. :-)

[ummmm]

My Mum's still alive and has plenty of years ahead. My Dad died in Feb 08 and it devastated me. Still is actually. Although my Mum's a lovely woman and was a good Mum there's no comparison between the love I had for my Dad. When he got sick people were visiting me often I think to make sure I wasn't cracking up.....that's how much I loved him :-(

[Sachs]

I know you think loads of your mum leg, parents aren't perfect are they, none of us are. I remember something that happened between me and my dad, something & nothing, but the bubble was burst & I never saw him in the same light after that. Still love them both to bits, but they're human just like us. Trouble is, when you're young you so lok up to them for guidance dont you?

Salla, it's brilliant you've had that opportunity to tell them how you feel. How many of us I wonder wish they'd done just that sooner, then it's sadly too late.

[Bbbananas]

Aah umm - if I was the sort of person that gives those internet hug things (((((((( )))))) or whatever - I'd give you one.

I know exactly where you're coming from. When my dad goes, a big part of me will go with him. But better to have good memories eh than bad, or none at all xxx

[CAJ1]

I was talking about my parents in another post there. My parents had me fostered and my Mum decided to stay with my Dad than come to rescue me! They moved without giving me their address and I have no idea of where they are. I probably won't ever know when they are no longer in this world

[Sachs]

Grief is so powerful isn't it ummm! x

[Sachs]

CAJ, don't know what to say! xxx

[CAJ1]

Nothing needs to be said, just sharing my experience :o)

[Sqad]

Brought up by my grandfather and grandmother, never met my father. My mother died 2yrs ago and as I didn't know her, I didn't grieve for her although I admired her as a person.

Have 4 sons, but I am not what you might calla "family man" tto much "fannying " about with families is not a good thing in my opinion and the sooner they line that life is not a "bowl of roses" the better.

[Sachs]

Right!! Feel like I've brought the whole good feeling of Chatterbank down! Nice to appreciate our parents though. Sorry about your experiences CAJ x

[Sachs]

Sqad,
that's fair enough, see where you're coming from!

[Bbbananas]

" too much "fannying " about with families is not a good thing in my opinion and the sooner they line that life is not a "bowl of roses" the better."

Sqad - you never fail to tug at my heartstrings.
God love ya xx

[sn�gs]

Dad died 9 years ago... get on great with Mum... same SOH and outlook on life...

[CAJ1]

I didn't mean to bring CB down either - sorry! I've learnt to live with it Sachs although it still hurts. They are the ones missing out on my achievements, the day I marry and grandchildren xx

[Sqad]

salla...I would rather...."tug at your bra straps"

Lost at snooker, but feel "randy"........!!!

[zzxxee]

yes but then my dads only 62 and mums 58 but haveing worked with the elderly and watching some pass away it makes you realise what a precious gift life is and how we take loved ones for granted

[shtbagmcgee]

Sachs
Thurs 06/08/09
14:20 Question Author

I know you think loads of your mum leg,


Yes this is clearly demonstrated by the wayhe's dumped her in an old codgers home and flown thousands of miles away from her to get drunk ever night.Yep what a a great relationship,we can learn loads from him......

[Bbbananas]

Ooh sqadlet....

I just happen to have my best bra on as well. But be gentle - I have sore bits where I've been in the sun. Would you like to soothe me with calamine lotion or, better still, the aloe vera gel?

[Leggalyblond]

lol i think klowns returned

i will now use the contact us option

thanks sachs and everyone else