Why are women..

[topogigo]

or more than enough of them at least, apparently comfortable with ridiculing men about the size of their manhood. The brother of a girl that was one of my tenants, has hung himself thanks to the gossip that was going around about him due to an ex girlfriend maliciously kissing and telling. This happened about 18 months ago, K , his sister recounted to my friend what had been said and how the local girls all held their little finger up to him when they saw him. It is a god job the men are not quite so cruel. Shocking, and it isn't the first time i have known it to happen. According to his sister, the gossip was unfounded.
Bullying, some people get off on it.

[funnygirl]

That is a terrible thing.

They must have been immature young girls, because most women know, it is not the size that count, but what you can do with it.

[daffy654]

'A woman scorned' and all that. Yes some women can be really nasty like that but I wouldn't say it was most women or even a significant number of us.
I know a bloke who when dumped by a girl went around telling everyone she had a fanny like a bucket and it would take several men at once for her to feel anything.It wasn't true and she ignored his stupidity.

[puddicat]

Topo thats beyond belief,some of the young girls at my work are totally disgusting,and these so called ladies come from good families!!!

[Bbbananas]

Hey - don't tar us all with the same brush. I think that's awful and I also believe the majority of women would not ridicule someone in such a way.

[4getmenot]

Must be the girls in your area because if someone did that round here it would get boring after a while and a bit pathetic. They all seem a bit immature

[elginred]

That's terribly sad!!

I think it's unfair, however, to suggest that this kind of behavior is exclusive to women!

As a large woman myself, I've had my fair share of unwanted comments/assumptions and nastiness from males. However, I do not make sweeping statements about the male gender!

But I am sorry that someone has been made to feel that low they ended their own life! Those girls will have to carry that around for the rest of theirs! His poor family must be devastated!

[whiskeysheri]

A lot of your post generalise women, topo. We're not all the same, y'know, same as blokes...

[natalie_1982]

Topo - you just answered a thread elsewhere saying how you prefer small breasts, you're not exactly in a position to be casting aspersions over the rest of us!

I think what you have posted is incredibly sad but I think you'll find it is a small minority of stupid women that make commenst like that, just like it is a small minority of stupid men that make equally vile comments about women.

[topogigo]

I don't know the women concerned, so i can't sau what their backgrounds are. What i do know is that girls tend to imagine that it is fair game to be able to say it, an ex girlfriend of my sons wrote him a note after they split up, it was abusive and called him tinyd*ck, which as his dad i can say is not true, and his cousin who also went with her said she had written the same to him. I am sure they are young girls as the lad was only 19, but come on something is going wrong when bullying of this or any other nature is allowed to happen.

[Sgt.Rock]

Women are much more scheming, childish, vindictive and nasty then men. Simple as that.

[natalie_1982]

Don't you think it happens to girls then? That some girls are bullied because their boobs are deemed too big or too small? Or, as has already been mentioned, I knew someone who was bullied because going with her was like "dangling string in a drainpipe".

[Backdrifter]

It's unfortunate that you've known of a couple of cases of this, but I'd join with others here in saying that you can't label everyone with that accusation. People in general, male or female, can choose to be cruel about any number of things and can always fall back on the old "I'm just joking" routine - not taking into account the drip-drip-drip effect of those taunts.

[Sgt.Rock]

Nat - I think if girls are bullied for this, it will be girls who are more likely to do the bullying.

[topogigo]

Explain that one Natalie.
Or have you no actual reason other than what i can see a few women have already started to do, that is to automatically get defensive about anything a man could criticize a women about. I think you have just proved my point.
Don't be thick, i was talking about someone being bullied to the point of suicide and all you lot can do is defend women! Ask K, her brother is dead she will tell you how it is!
How selfish? How callous?
And what is wrong with me liking small tits for god sake?

[daffy654]

I have already said that some women can be nasty,you seem to insinuate that all women are that way and we are most definitely not!!! Some men can be nasty too but I don't tar them all with the same brush.

[elginred]

topogigo, I think you are being incredibly unfair!

It's the generalisation regarding women that people are commenting on. Sadly, due to thoughtlessness on your part, nobody is really discussing your topic!

Get off your high horse, your choice of wording could have been better!

[debbz1969]

That is a dreadful story top but it isn't just women who can be cruel.
A school friend of mine almost died as a result of men ridiculing her about her size. She used to be quite big, not enormous by any means, but blokes used to say things like "look at the ar*e on that, slap it and ride the ripple" etc etc. Very cruel, as a result she dropped to less than 5 stone and ended up on a mental health ward.
Moral to this story, men and women can be cruel. It is not sex specific.

[Ethel]

Men are just as bad and do awful things toward women.

Remember the song, Nice Legs, Shame About the Face?

Many girls were humiliated by builder types shouting that as they walked past.

And why do you think so many girls and women are having boob jobs and so on?

There are just as many very nasty men as there are nasty women, and I find it hugely offensive you perceive this to be purely women.

[RevFunk]

What sort of rope did he use? Was it a decent knot? Did he make much of a mess? Did he use a sturdy beam?

Just trying to establish if he really was "well hung"

[natalie_1982]

Explain what to you?
Yes, it's true, I have no mind of my own and simply copied the previous posters. Good spotting.

I think you're just tying to get a rise out of people, either that or you're just ignorant to think that only men are affected by bullying.

Trust me I know all too well the implications of a suicide, I don't need educating there. And I can't ask K can I you daft git

Lastly, just because you say your son has a bigger willy than alleged, and K says that her brother has a bigger willy than alleged (which, frankly, is plain weird that either of you think it's a valid arguement) is neither here nor there - bullying is bullying whether it is true or not. it's about as relevent as whether small tits, as you so nicely put it, are better than big ones