is it normal?

[qandaseeker]

I am 19 years old and and i weigh 90 kgs. my penis size when flaccid is about 1 inch and when erect it is approx 4 inch. I know this is below average. i want to increase it natually. Do you think my weight has anything to do with it? I dont want to use any sort of medicine, devices etc. Please help me.

Thank you

[tinkerbell99]

sorry to tell you this but your weight has nothing to do with the size of your penis its ok though women only feel the 1st three inches anyway and its more about girth than length or try positions where you go deeper like doggy and you master the use of your tongue too ; ) xxxxx

[Abdulmajid]

If it grows to a decent size when erect, does it really matter how big or small it is when soft?? Who will see it??

[tombrandy]

Its not the size that matters its the way you use it.

[Jugglering]

As a mature (ahem) lol lady of some 53 years, I must agree with the others above.... and as Tom says, it's not what you do, it's the way that you do it....... lol.... so stop worrying! It sounds perfectly ok to me :) Men who go on about their size have more of an insecurity complex than those who know what to do to make a lady feel good, so take no notice of all those fellas trying to make you feel small and insignificant - they are the ones with the problem - not you !

[Velvetee]

Well as everyone else has said, there isn't anything you can do to increase the size permanantly.

You will just have to accept that it's smaller than you would like it to be and not become obsessional about it.

[ceejn]

Doesn't need to be big to fill a pram ;-D

[mrs.chappie]

When you find a woman who's right for you, she won't give a monkey's doodah how big or small your ahem manly bits are.

If you're a nice person, you'll do for her!

[Eve]

Well having been a woman of the world I can honestly say that I agree with the above, it's not the size, it's what you do with it.

Some men make the mistake of thinking us ladies just want to be slobbered all over and manhandled then are happy to lay back and think of England while they hammer away.

Concentrate on making yourself a caring and unselfish lover, learn what actually gets a lady going (if in doubt ask in a sexy way) and you won't have to worry about size :)

[joggerjayne]

The worst kept secret in the world (the world of beddie things, at least) is that we have more (and better) orgasms when you perform orally than when you are "hammering away" (as Jenna so aptly put it).

Do it gently, then roughly, then gently again, but always enthusiastically.

Make a girl feel as though having her c u m m i n g into your mouth is what you want more than anything in the world (let her kneel over your mouth and that is exactly what will happen).

And buy this. If you can't find it an a shop, order it from Amazon. I don't know whereyou live, but I got a copy from a shop called Harmony near Tottenham Court Road, opposite CentrePoint.

[joggerjayne]

Sorry. Forget the attachment.

Buy this ...

http://www.amazon.co.uk/She-Comes-First-Thinki ng-Pleasuring/dp/0285637223

[Doc.Spock.1]

Love the "Add to wedding list" bit.

[joggerjayne]

LOL Doc.

Be sure to open it before the Honeymoon, and tell the groom he has to read it on the plane and finish it before you arrive on holiday.

[sqad617]

To me, you have all missed the point. quandaseeker is worried because he has a small penis, NOT that he cannot satisfy women sexually, which I am sure that he can and does.
Having a small penis to a man is the same as a woman having a crooked nose or large or small breasts or bags under her eyes.....nothing at all to do with the sex act.
My opinion? all the answes, I bet from women" have completely missed the point.
Before your replies pour in, my penis is not a problem.

[daniela31]

Then the answer is no.
You cannot make it grow any bigger. No ammount of body building or exercising is going to make any difference.
4" is only just below average, and it looks like you will have to accept what you have got.
If it's bothering you psychologically, the best person to talk about it to is your GP.
:-)

[Paul22118]

I think that a small penis on a guy of your weight will appear to your eyes, small.

Loose a couple of stone, maybe get down to eleven stone and your penis will appear more generous simply because when you diet your penis does not lose weight.

It will seem longer on a slender body.

[vrach]

Strictly medical and to the point!
90 kg at age 19 means more than regular amount of fat in the pubic region among other places(abdomen etc).Just depress the fat at the bottom of the organ and you will appreciate it's true length(I'm sure more than 1 and 4 inches respectively).
I do it all the time to instantly dispel the fears of mothers of chubby male infants.