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Im 15,16 on thursday and I like the type of boys who are tanned taller than me have a good fashion sense and darkish hair. Recently I have been going to this place where my friends go and I have fallen for this one particular boy who is very pale bright blonde hair and quite rough as in smokes drugs and also gets into fights with his mates. But he is so lovely to me and treats me so nice my friends tell me hes rough and not to go there and that they dont think hes good looking at all. but i have other ideas and im so confused he is nothing like the type of boy I go for but theres just something about him and i do like the rebel side it males me feel safe if you kno what I mean?What should I do about him I duno what my family would do or be like but I jus really like him he likes me to I know so he told me but I jus dont whether to go 4 it with him or not????
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A lot of women are drawn to the "Bad Boy"- look at Phil Mitchell!! Your instinct is telling you not to go there. My instinct tells me not to eat a whole cake, as I know it's bad for me, but I still do! It may be that you are curious, and you won't be satisfied until you find out more about him. Just remember that, no matter how charming he is to you, if he is into drugs and fighting, the relationship may be pretty hard for you when this "honeymoon period" wears off.
Everyone has a 'type', and usually finishes up with someone the opposite. I've always loved small dark haired women with little turned up noses and big brown eyes. My wife is blonde, with an aquiline nose, and green eyes! If you like this guy, see how it goes - a couple of dates will give you an idea, no-one is saying you should run off and marry him. Avoid being drawn into his lifestyle if it makes you uncomfortable. There's a two-word response for any guy who says "I don't go out with girls who don't sleep with me / take drugs with me / make me wear a condom / etc., and that response is "See ya!" Good luck.
I guess it won't hurt to experiment with different types of boys but drugs and fighting are usually synonymous with not acheiving much in life. Being a slacker and a troublemaker. I probably would go out with him a couple of times, just for a good time and to learn about people. Just don't let him get you involved in any of those seedy activities yourself. Follow your instincts on this one.