driving women away

[angryman2008]

even at work i see differences in womens attitudes toward me compared to colleagues, it may be to do with me being quieter i dont know, but i have a long list of females who start off thinkin im good looking but then something in me says this is going too well, lets self destruct. this girl was lovely but i think iv scared her off by seeing my ar5e as id not heard from her, shes playing the field but i hate all that, thing is i couldv had fun with her but 2 late now, own stupid fault for always being so serious. how the hell do i loosen up or am i destind 2 be the goodlookin guy who took life way too serious and ended up alone?

[angryman2008]

i mean can men be too nice, sensitive? i have trouble building friendship with women let alone date them, they all say im good looking but what is it these days, women seem more after fun than men, then they cry how bad their men are......it honestly feels more like a rat race, pointscoring competition even than work

[cazzz1975]

maybe you are going for the wrong types of women?

If you are naturally quiet and concious of it you may seek out louder or more confident women with the hope that it may improve your ability to be more confident

[angryman2008]

but i thought if i stayed quiet and humble, women would think wow thats rare, a decent lookin fella with no agenda. but no, quiet is boring theyd much rather gossip about their cheating or violent men. ......is this the future? do i need 2 start cheating and get myself to be the centre of gossip to get some interest? why do some just have a gift for the flirt? i want it

[lil123]

You will meet the right woman one day just keep thinking positive and unfortunately we all have to meet the wrong ones at times in order to know when we do meet the right one.

[gravitation]

go in to work drunk. It will give you more confidence.
Trust me....

my twin brother is a gynacologist

[MiniN]

angryman, not all women are the same. just like not all men are the same.

just be yourself and the right girl will come along for you.

don't be too serious in the beginning of the relationship because this is a time when your still getting to know each other and having fun.

[Octavius]

angryman, are you the person formally known as jibjab?

[Octavius]

formerly

[andy-hughes]

Women sense vibes a mile off.

They are far mnore intuitive than men, and this is what you are finding out, the hard way.

You can be a living Adonis, but if you give off vibrations of being uptight and mistrusting, any woman will sense this within sixty seconds of meeting you, and act accordingly.

Try not to plan ahead how a relationship wil go, and just let it happen.

If you constantyly assume women will behave in a certain way, and then wait for it to happen, and become disappointed if it doesn;t, then you are doomed to be alone - your looks are not the issue, so stop worrying about them.

Women are people too - treat them accordingly, you'll be pleasantly surprised.

[MiniN]

well said andy!

[angryman2008]

jibjab? what? no im sorry it isnt. I guess ive been single so long now, and just havent bothered trying or treid too hard when opportunities arise.... just finidng it a really difficult situation at the moment thanks for the comments