Going back?

[Rubyrose]

Since me and my ex broke up a year an a half ago I have reconnected with a lot of friends I lost touch with whilst I was with him! Not for any major reason did we lose touch, just that I was with my ex so spent most of my time with him. I mostly lost touch with my male mates though.

But in the last year I have become good mates again with some of them and 3 in particular that I used to have MAJOR crushes on before my ex. I have reconnected with all 3 of them and ended up 'getting' with two of them! Although once we 'hooked up' we kind of lost touch again. I don't really want to call or text them as it seems like its done with now.

Do you think it was just infinished business that needed to be sorted but never did coz I was with my ex at the time? I was with him 5yrs! I have now lost all feeling of the crushes I used to have for these 2 when I was about 14-15. Now the 3rd one has come along and we have got all flirty again and stuff and I feel like I did when I fancied him as a kid but this time I don't want to mess it up. I'm not saying anything will happen but it would be nice just to have him back as a friend... even though we are getting a bit flirty and it is nice and we used to be all flirty back then but nothing happened. Just seems that now we are more grown up and the flirty is even more intense and serious!

Should you ever go back? Or are crushes best left behind you as crushes?

[Rubyrose]

Yeah but he is cute and we get on so well and it's all come flooding back!

This is my point... should crushes stay in the past...?

[feist]

Lovely, got all the posts banned expect for your boring ones.

As for your q, yes yes and yes. Now shut up about it.

[Rubyrose]

Actually Feist I have no idea where they all went!!!!!!!!!! :oS

I never reported them... You can ask Ed... I only reported 1 post and it wasn't one of Leg-ends.. me and him were having a proper chat by the end of the thread!!!!! Someone else must have reported them... unless Ed decided to remove them!

[feist]

Well good thing Ed removed them, nothing but childish insults were posted as far as I remember.... if you post a Q, you better be ready to accept all opinions.