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First Love
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I'm truly happily married. Love my wife to bits - she's a beautiful, smart, sexy woman, and she loves me too. I'd do anything for her. Also, life is great, and happily we have a lovely home and no real financial worries.
Why then do i think so fondly about a girl I fell for when I was a teenager? We broke up amicably in the 80's after about a year together, yet I don't think there's a day goes by that I don't think of her. I've only met her once since then, and we got on really well (in the 10 minutes we had to chat!). But I'd thought of her even before running into her that day.
Why then do i think so fondly about a girl I fell for when I was a teenager? We broke up amicably in the 80's after about a year together, yet I don't think there's a day goes by that I don't think of her. I've only met her once since then, and we got on really well (in the 10 minutes we had to chat!). But I'd thought of her even before running into her that day.
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Thats first love for you whickerman. :-)
I still think about my first love often. he was a lovely lovely lad and he will always hold a very special place in my heart, a place where no one else will ever go!
Maybe we're in love with the idea of how easy life was when we were that age and falling in love for the first time. Either way, first love will always be special to the majority of us.
I still think about my first love often. he was a lovely lovely lad and he will always hold a very special place in my heart, a place where no one else will ever go!
Maybe we're in love with the idea of how easy life was when we were that age and falling in love for the first time. Either way, first love will always be special to the majority of us.
I met a 17 year old girl from a town near where I lived. We were both on holiday, she had recently lost her father due to a heart attack (very quick mercifuly). To cut a long story short, I helped her through her loss, and after a few months, became her first love (I was 29, she was 17, not that that has anything to do with it).. That was in 1990, I went off to fight in the Gulf War and when I came back, we stayed together for a few months before drifting apart. She is now very happily married with a fantastic career, (she has a Phd in Chemistry) and two wonderful children. We stay in touch via email and text, both our spouces know about us and are ok about it. The point is, it's ok to keep memories, but, remember, they are memories and, no matter how strong we felt about each other, they should stay just that.
Hi Whickerman,
Have you never heard the old saying "You have a first love, a last love and a lost love"
I have to admit I have never felt that way about any ex boyfriend or my ex Husband as I have the most wonderful Husband anyone could ever have. He was diagnosed today with Cancer for the second time in two years but I thank God for every day we have together.
Have you never heard the old saying "You have a first love, a last love and a lost love"
I have to admit I have never felt that way about any ex boyfriend or my ex Husband as I have the most wonderful Husband anyone could ever have. He was diagnosed today with Cancer for the second time in two years but I thank God for every day we have together.
Hi Skyep
No, she was quiet, very pretty, and very intelligent, and I fell for her big time. I broke up with her so that I wouldn't stand in her way when she went away to university. She had also become my best friend by the time we broke up. I was heartbroken but it was the only thing to do - I couldn't go with her and she deserved the best, including no hassles when she left. I know that she's now a university lecturer, and happily married, so it worked out for the best for all concerned, but still...
No, she was quiet, very pretty, and very intelligent, and I fell for her big time. I broke up with her so that I wouldn't stand in her way when she went away to university. She had also become my best friend by the time we broke up. I was heartbroken but it was the only thing to do - I couldn't go with her and she deserved the best, including no hassles when she left. I know that she's now a university lecturer, and happily married, so it worked out for the best for all concerned, but still...
don't try too hard! - we're really happy, outgoing etc. We have pretty much everything in common. Don't get the idea that i'm obsessed with the other girl, far from it. It's just that for maybe 5 seconds every day I catch myself thinking of her, and it's a nice memory. I don't feel guilty - I wouldn't swap - but I'm just curious to see if I'm the only one (apparently not from the answers above).
Whickerman - Sorry, just looked over my reply, was trying to crack the case :0) It's wierd isn't it how people from the past can come in to your thoughts! Many years ago I was seeing a lad who lived life pretty much on the edge, took drugs ect.. I was attracted to his wild side, although he definately wasn't ever going to be a long term relationship. He still occasionally comes in to my thoughts. I am now married to a very lovely man, we have a good marriage & we are very happy!
Used to meet my 1st love at Euston Station - it took me donkeys years to stop looking for him when I travelled in to London (not too often) Turning point came with the demise of slam door trains with pull down windows which we used to snog thru as the train home pulled out. Just realised I dont think I can be really sure what his name was now......!!
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