fed up and confused

[crimples10]

just finished with a guy after about 2 months. although we seemed to argue quite a bit we got on really well had a lot to say to eachother etc. it was kind of a mutual break up but said he doesnt want to end up falling for someone etc and is not ready for a relationship and wants us to be friends etc (he is 31 and 2 months is a long time for him) - is this person worth the time to bother staying frineds - can it be done after going out with someone and are men really interested in having firls as friends they've been out with? (says still fancies me and will be hard for him)

[B00]

Move on!

Going with a guy for only two months and you argued? Should still be in the lovey dovy honeymoon stage then, not bloody arguing!

Sure- stay friends with him if that's what you want to do, but don't pin your hopes on getting back with him. I'm a bit rusty on the dating scene (been a while!) but I find it hard to believe you can be friends with a guy you've been sleeping with, too much history.

[4getmenot]

move on and sorry to say you cant even be mates, its not fair on you at all. Go out and find someone worthy. xx

[ummmm]

How can anyone start arguing after just 2 months?

[crimples10]

likes his recreational drugs and i dont!

[ummmm]

Then you know the answer. Different lifestyles....rarely works.

[redcrx]

if he takes drugs and you dont like it then why are you worried about being his friend.

Move on