confussed?!

[pregnant-s]

im 17 and 8 weeks pregnant.im trying to decide weither to keep the baby or have a abortion.
if you have been pregnant and didnt no what to decide
how did u decide and what was it like?

thanks x

[Octavius]

At 8 weeks it really is too soon to know anything.

I seriously doubt the authenticity of this post and whether it is a pathetic attempt at attention seeking or you are seriously in turmoil.

Either way, you need professional help not a web debate.

[pregnant-s]

yea maybe tht is best since anything i say gets called a lie anyway!

im not lieing but if u dont belive me so what i no im telling the truth and ineed help and for the last time ive been to clinics

[Champagne]

I fully agree Ummmm. That added to the fact that she has the full support of her family, so why is she still so confused. Like Warpig says, it's not amusing when people have shared their own traumatic experience in order to offer advice. Anyone who has gone through this sort of thing will know that you would not continue posting on an open forum like this when you're a 17 year old confused pregnant girl who then gets attacked verbally. You just wouldn't!

[warpig1]

Thank you Champagne.

[redcrx]

if clinics havnt helped (and you still havnt tried brook) and the last 2 posts didnt help you why on earth are you bothering to add all these things to your story (social services, other pregnancies etc)

[pregnant-s]

because i found out about 10 minutes about tht he had another girl pregnant..im ******* fed up with this...i added another post because i was confussed ok im sorry if none of u belive me but im fed up with ppl on here judgeing me and calling me a liar! im leaving this **** bye

[cascarelli]

Oh dear. This didn't sound right yesterday and now, again, today.

Is it the school holidays or is someone bored?

[laurence2]

Your confused, i'm having serious trouble with your spelling, no amount of crying over the keyboard will allow for the amount of mistakes your making. this post looks highly suspect, go away.

[redcrx]

half term cascarelli!

I was all for believing the poor girl until she got to the point where she ignored all answers on fmaily and concentrated on an argument between John and wardy instead.
Maybe the original story is true but the attention on the previous post turned her head? Maybe some good will come of it and she will seek professional advice rather than ask for info from a public forum that her mum and nan recommended (as mentioned previousl)

[Octavius]

If you really are confused about your options, then perhaps you should take time away from Answerbank and read the advice and stories on this website.

http://www.ruthinking.co.uk/about_sex/sex_and_ the_law/abortion.aspx

Once you have done that, talk to the people who know you (friends, family, doctor etc).

[4getmenot]

what a load of bulltwang

[pregnant-s]

im 17 so even if it was school holidays it woudnt be for me! i really can not belive that your all acusing me of liar because i can not spell very well my mum has even asked a question on here about my pregnancy!

[spurslady]

At the end of the day this is a decision that only you can make. We can not make your mind up for you. There are lots of people out there that will support you. Have a close family member? Do you get on with your ex's family? Maybe they could help?

here are some useful websites that may help

www.doh.gov.uk/teenagepregnancyunit
www.There4me.com
http://www.brook.org.uk/content/M13_1_goodlink s.asp
http://www.hillingdongrid.org/articleshow/inde x.php?article=content§ion=15&id=169&pid=32 &parent=Y&show=sub&link=Teenage%20Pregnancy

Sorry I know this is not a good time to point this out. But did they teach you spelling and punctuation at school? It's like reading a very bad text message. Almost like you are trying to misspell on purpose. If not please use the spell checker that is available on most computers.

[spurslady]

Post the link of your mum's question then please.

[Eve]

Was this it?

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Pregnanc y/Question360683.html

[whiskeysheri]

pregnant-sVETLANA?! Is that you?! :-O

[spurslady]

Numan/newmantoady and corole perhaps?

[nic2006]

stupid woman