confussed?!

[pregnant-s]

im 17 and 8 weeks pregnant.im trying to decide weither to keep the baby or have a abortion.
if you have been pregnant and didnt no what to decide
how did u decide and what was it like?

thanks x

[Skreecheeboy]

Sorry I'm havign a go at you because I'm down in the dumps, that was really unfair but I believe I have a point about women taking whatever is offered to them and not waiting for something better to come along. Happens all the time, that's why I don't usually bother trying to pull when I go out, a) it's too easy and b) it's too hard to tell what somebody's like from a brief encounter on a dance floor

[redcrx]

how can he not be allowed to see children that dont exist yet~?

you said 'i have not made a final decition.also the babys father is not allowed to see his child! he has had trouble with social serives with his family before.'

this was before you knew about a 2nd pregnancy and it reads as if he already has a child.

[warpig1]

Champagne, think you could be right too, seems to be going that way. That really p1sses me off as I gave a genuine answer based on my own personal experiences, if it is SR I will not be amused :-o(

[pregnant-s]

you think this is a joke?
well im not really finding it funny
im serious

and i ment he will not be allowed to see his children when there born sorry

[crete]

do i detect a funny odour on site ?

[ummmm]

I agree that this doesn't read right......After the the original thread I would have thought it would have scared any 17 year old off.....

But to post the same question again?

[redcrx]

what makes you say that he wouldnt be able to see his children? why ever not? and why would social services have had dealings with a man with no children?

[pregnant-s]

a few arguements between two silly men doesnt scared me off im worryed and dont no wat to do and need advice

[pregnant-s]

because social serives have got hold of me and told me he wont be able to see the child unless with supervistion for reason which im not going to spred all over the net

[ummmm]

And if you knew him for a year you obviously must be a bad judge of character.

And has your spelling got even worse since yesterday?

[crete]

if you genuinly require advice go to the professionals, rather than strangers on an open forum.

[pregnant-s]

im sorry if my spelling i bad but its kinda hard to see the keyboard when your crying.

[pregnant-s]

i told u i have been to the family clinic and they were no help id rather here wat other ppl did wen they had to make the choice

[ummmm]

Oh c'mon....how stupid do you think we are?

Your 8 weeks pregnant....meaning you have only known that you're pregnant for 4 weeks max. Social services have contacted you already.....what a load of bull....

[makemesmile]

First of all, I found it really strange that anyone (let a lone a pregnant and scared 17 year old) would re-post this question, after the last debacle. And to choose the username pregnant-s seems quite strange. And now, after such dodgy answers....

I'm sorry, I'm not wasting any more energy on this.

If you are for real, stop being a silly little girl and go to a clinic.

[crete]

ive seen enough . bye

[redcrx]

im amazed that the social knew of your pregnany , who the father is and reacted so quickly.

Call brook as youve been advised before. The details are on family where you left your first thread.

Your happy enough to ask for info from strangers and tell them the father is in trouble with social services and yet wont say why?

Im with champagne on this i think.

[pregnant-s]

i only found out i was pregnant at 7 weeeks and also the fathers mom rang social serives thank you very much

[ummmm]

That one didn't get enough reactions Red....!!!!

[ummmm]

So you've known for a week?

In the circumstances I would advise a termination...