hi, i generally dont even remember people's names even when we've has a large disagreement. there is one person i am wary of, although don't necassarily "hold a grudge" against. She has intelligent posts, but im very way of disagreeing with her, as i feel like her friends will gang up on me
There is one person i have an all out grudge against, and really really dont care how insulted they feel by me. i cannot take any of their posts seriously, because they never ask questions but insist on posting racist and sexist (and boring) jokes, which offend me on every level, not least because they clog up the body and soul section, whilst having nothing to do with body and soul. this grudge will always remain, as the poster once threatened to commit suicide, then went offline for a few hours, came bacl and said they felt better. I really really think that is one of the most unfair things you can do.