mingerminge, it is one thing asking a personal question on here in the correct way, which i have to agree you have done, but it is quite another matter when you choose an id like yours as there are all ages using this site, and apart from that is is not a site that encourages people to just create an id to ask one question and then never post again, and so if you intend to stick around i would take the senior members advice, i.e. B00, and email the ed from your profile and request a change of your user name to something a child may be able to read.