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And i don't feel cross. Just very very sad. He always does it and it's a bit of a joke( although i do find it hard to laugh inside. But this time, i think I've had enough.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Aww, have you told him how upsetting you find it?
I remember feeling really bad after a boyfriend at the time (serious, we lived together) was in an awful mood one Sunday, properly sulking. I finally got it out of him what was up with him, that I hadn't bought him an...wait for it...Easter Egg... I think that was taking things a bit far :)
Seriously though, anniversities are special, could you take to him about it?
I remember feeling really bad after a boyfriend at the time (serious, we lived together) was in an awful mood one Sunday, properly sulking. I finally got it out of him what was up with him, that I hadn't bought him an...wait for it...Easter Egg... I think that was taking things a bit far :)
Seriously though, anniversities are special, could you take to him about it?
We don't do anniversaries - neither of us. I sometimes remember at the end of the day and ask him if he knows what day it is and he always says he does. It's just not that important to either of us. He always remembers my birthday though I must admit. As for silver weddings and ruby weddings etc. I would just hate a big celebration. We are a low key family!!
Cheer up Crisgal, it doesn't mean a thing and it doesn't mean he doesn't care for you. I think it is worse when a bloke remembers an anniversary only out of duty!!
Cheer up Crisgal, it doesn't mean a thing and it doesn't mean he doesn't care for you. I think it is worse when a bloke remembers an anniversary only out of duty!!
i think you should tell him he is a pig. mr kicker did the same thing on our 20th anniversary (we usually do cards and a small sill pressie) but he completely forgot. i do all the manual labour in our house and darn well expect a small gesture of appreciation for putting up with him. so, he ended up grovelling, taking me for a meal and a belated bunch of flowers. but i still called him a pig and am cross with him. some boys will whinge it's not important or 'it's only a card' etc.......but it is the thought that counts and ladies should be romanced once in a while to negate the rubbish that we go through in trying to guide them through life in one piece. mr kicker knows he is a pig and is still sucking up to me 2 months later. i'm not sure when i will let him off the hook.....x
You should make a joke of it too - and remind him several days before the event! Don't take it to heart - some men are just hopeless.
Ann, //Mine doesn't get me flowers for Valentines Day, says they are a rip off, prices inflated for this day (they are!) but how sad is that? //
Not sad at all. We never 'do' Valentines Day. It IS a rip off. If you really care you don't need a manufactured date to show it.
Ann, //Mine doesn't get me flowers for Valentines Day, says they are a rip off, prices inflated for this day (they are!) but how sad is that? //
Not sad at all. We never 'do' Valentines Day. It IS a rip off. If you really care you don't need a manufactured date to show it.
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