Should I consider a hymenoplasty?

[BettyAbominable]

My virginity was taken against my will at a young age. Though now I'm engaged to a wonderful man and we are sexually active. Since I never got the opportunity to share that moment of "losing it" to someone, I'd like to get a hymenoplasty done before our wedding, so that I'll get that chance once we've been married. Is this a good idea? I've done a bit of research but don't quite know everything about it.

[pastafreak]

Your hymen may not even have been intact when you did loose your virginity. It's just a bit of skin that may have come undone doing sport,or any number of ways.
But hey-it's your body...and cash.
If you find a way to turn the clock back,let me know.

[jackthehat]

Why not pay for your fella to have his 'John Thomas' fattened up a bit?

That way there's no surgery for you and it ought to have the same(ish) result...

[tiggerblue10]

Lol AYG!

I too think its pointless. Once its gone, its gone. You've already experienced sex so I don't think it would make a difference at all, hymen or no hymen.

[BettyAbominable]

Chaptazbru, my first time was so unpleasant bcuz I was so young. Nd as far as I remember, the hymen breaking wasn't so painful. It isn't something I'd be going through "again". For me this experience would be something new

[cazzz1975]

ok, good luck.

[chaptazbru]

pmsl at jack

[mrs.chappie]

I wouldn't consider it, can think of other, much more useful things to do with the cash.

But ultimately, if it's your money, it's your choice.

[hc4361]

Your wedding night will be special.
It will be the first ever time you make love with your husband, as his wife.

[BettyAbominable]

My fiance is quite fine in that department. I don't have any problem with our sex life. It isn't for the sex or pleasure. Nd again, it is an ACTUAL procedure. I want to willingly give that up to someone. For someone who gave their virginity on their own, its hard to understand. Nd it may not even be a big deal. But for someone who never got that chance, it is

[daisya]

If you're already having sex with him why would you want to have surgery fgs (it could go wrong...). Agree with others who say spend the money on honeymoon or something for the house...

[BettyAbominable]

Nd thank u hc, I never considered that :)

[bednobs]

well if it's such a big deal for you, then the answer to "should i consider it" is clearly yes

[mccfluff]

Bit of bubble gum ought to do the trick, lot cheaper and you can go for a complimentary flavour

[BettyAbominable]

I was also looking into such things as its effectiveness, nd safety

[BettyAbominable]

Lmao!!! Tasty mccfluff! XD

[woofgang]

do you use tampons? If you do then you probably eroded your own hymen.

[Mamyalynne]

Do Amazon not sell them??

[hc4361]

I believe there are very few women who treasure the moment they lost their virginity. For most it is an embarrassing disappointment that they prefer to forget.

Anyway, there is a huge difference between having sex and making love. You don't any operation to heal you, just change your way of thinking, talk to your fiancé and all will be well.

[BettyAbominable]

Yes I do now. But I never had a period until after my Hymen broke

[BettyAbominable]

Ive discussed it with him. He's satisfied with the way things r now but says it's my decision. He'd be willing to wait until our marriage to take this "virginity" if it means so much to me.