having just got my own first pair of glasses which are similar to yours, i am very relieved to say that you don't look better in either photo - you are the same person, after all. however, your glasses do suit you very much. i am struggling to come to terms with mine also...somtimes i feel fine wearing them and am grateful for better vision; and other times i feel a right geek. try not to worry so much - you are a beautiful young woman and anyone worth their salt will see past the glasses x