Are You Trusting?

[TWR]

Are You?
Have you been?
What caused you to change?
Would you do it again?

[anneasquith]

who are you..........why are you asking............... ? :) :)

[TWR]

I'm asking the Q Anne.

[Nibble]

Who wants to know????
Why do they want to know??

[kvalidir]

I'm initially very trusting of people, but they have three hits and then they're out. This applies to people working against me, being nasty to me, telling lies to me or about me or otherwise being an ***, platonic and romantic, online or in real life. Once they are outside of my 'okay' zone' I really don't care because they always chose to put themselves there.

[Tilly2]

I'm not going to tell. You might tell.

[Svejk]

we're all quite trusting when young, aren't we? Life makes us cynical (and bitter and twisted) ;-)

[anneasquith]

no.......life makes us more mellow, less judgemental I think,

[Tilly2]

Twr, from other things you have posted, you obviously carry a huge burden of resentment about someone. Is it eating you away? Can you not let it go?

[Peter Pedant]

.

For lying I have one strike and they're out -

Not - are you eating an apple - No its a pear - type stuff.
One whopper and you know you cant rely on them.....

[TWR]

Good answer Tilly, too much to go into to, but I should, but I can not. long story.

[boxtops]

It depends - initially and generally, yes, but I like to have a backup plan.

[RATTER15]

Generally I am trusting to a point!

It really depends on the situation.

Would I trust a stranger to look after wallet? NO

Would I trust a stranger to do me no harm, generally yes.

The list goes on...

[woofgang]

1. Not really
2. Not really
3. I don't think I have
4 N/A

[woofgang]

PS TWR, whatever it is, put it down, let it go. The only person harmed by holding on to anger and resentment is yourself.

[SlackAlice]

I only trust those who have stood the test of time, anyone else I only trust them as far as I can throw them.

Bearing in mind I'm getting older and weaker that isn't very far!!

[gness]

Morning, sunshine.....☺

Your question made me think...who would/wouldn't I trust.....

In my personal life I suppose because I have the family and friends I do I haven't really ever been let down....or been given reasons to mistrust them... well except the sister and the guy who took to drink....☺

Outside of that and without a doubt I have lost my faith and trust in the medical profession...... perhaps because so many of the ones I've had to deal with have been lacking it's made me mistrustful....x

[boxtops]

TWR - can we help with your issue that you can't put down? It's quite destructive to harbour something like this. You might not forget, but you need to be able to put it in a box and close the lid...

[RATTER15]

I have been married twice, both wives were unfaithful and had affairs, I trusted them both without question, they both betrayed my trust.

I am now with Carakeel, I trust her unreservedly and one day we will be married!!

[TWR]

Boxy, without going into detail, "A" takes a person with Sever L.D. to see a sex show, the person with L.D. does not have a choice, "A" brags about on F.B. and gets away with it by lying, Myself get's sacked for my dark sense of hummor!! "A" Is still there!!!!!!!

[boxtops]

That's injustice, I can see how it was rankle with you. However - .... it's in the past. Sadly, life's often not fair :-(