I think Bobbisox was her usual silly self and wrong to word he question the way she did, he intention was to explain why she was not posting the joke, not to cause offense. People can jump on it and try to run the girl down for it, but it was just an error of judgement not an attempt to offend. However, posters who added to the controversy have highlighted he mistake and the ridicule and negative comments she is getting as a result are not necessary at all. the ed removed the thread and censored the whole thing, why persecute her for being a bit dippy?