Wierd question i know, sorry

[tamirra]

I have a neighbour who lives in a bungalow behind my house, `she` used to be a man, what i want to know is, now that she is a woman ( kind of ) would she think like a man still or a woman, why im asking is, that more so in the summer when she is in the garden she always seems to stare up at my bedroom window, so is she just looking ( if she thinks like a woman ) or is she looking thinking like a man as sometimes i walk round like you do in your bra, i have only blinds and not nets?

[bednobs]

i think people who are transgender would argue that they've always thought like the sex opposite to tge way they were born

[redman41]

He might just like dressing up in Womens Clothes

[237SJ]

Did you see the progamme My Transsexual Summer recently? It was fascinating. I would imagine that if she has always seen herself as a woman, she would fancy men (at least that`s the way the subjects of the programme seemed to be). After all she`s transsexual, not transvestite. She would be receiving female hormones as well and the transsexuals on the programme said their personalities changed when they took male or female hormones. I would think she thinks like a woman.

[tamirra]

She has been married when she was a man and fathered a child, its confusing as im thinking of changing from blinds to nets as i dont want to give the wrong impression.

[4getmenot]

they will continue to think the way they did before. Bednobs you mean they think opposite to what society thinks their gender should.

[tamirra]

She dosnt look much like a woman, you can stil tell she was a man, eventhough she has boobs, so not even sure if she has female bits or male bits.

[bednobs]

why would she worry what you have at your windows??

[tamirra]

cos if i had nets she wouldnt be able to see me, cos i have only roller blinds she can see straight into the window.

[bednobs]

if you don't want anyone to see you parading round in your bra, just close the blinds when you are!

[daffy654]

Stop walking around in your bra with the blind open then. If you have it on show then people will look, it's human nature.

[4getmenot]

yep she/he could be gay so you'll never know. Just get new blinds, its your house. Sorted.

[DTCwordfan]

It is your privacy so take appropriate action.

The majority of transvestites are heterosexual by the way. If she is a transsexual, and a massive difference, just like any woman or man, she could be hetero, homo, or bi..... that does not change with genderchange. From what you indicate, she is probably on hormones if she has grown boobs.....there's usually a minimum of 3 years before any possible reassignment surgery re the hormones and 1 year minimum living as a woman before they will consider the surgery (which is not light weight).

Treat her as a woman - most transgender and transvestites are usually caring people....

[tamirra]

Yes it would bother me, i didnt know she lived there until quite recent, i just wanted to know how she would be thinking, maybe i will get nets for the windows.

[jno]

you can never tell what other people are thinking. If it worries you, pull the blind down or stand away from the window.

[4getmenot]

male or female i wouldnt want anyone to see me through window undressing. Dont know what gender has to do with it.

[daffy654]

A lot of people don't realise that if you parade around inside your own home either naked or semi-naked you can be prosecuted for indecency if someone sees you and complains.

[tamirra]

My mums next door neighbour goes naked in the summer in his garden, now that is wrong.