What can I do?

[kat2206]

My son is 18years old, he has recently (within the last month) started a relationship with a 27 yr old with 4 kids... that doesnt bother me to a certain extent as I know I can't do anything about it anyway due to him being an "adult". So I have supported him in his decision... However, over the past few weeks her friend, who is a 32yr old male, not interested in said woman whom my son is with but he does have a problem with their relationship, have not a clue as to why..

Anyway, I digress, my son was walking to the bus stop this morning to get to college where this man is waiting for him and promptly punches my son in the face,twice.

Obviously I am now concerned for my son and I really do want him to think twice about this relationship... I know I can't make him stop seeing her but what can I do other than ship him off to another Country?

[cazzz1975]

I agree with boo here

[Craftypig]

This thread has got Jeremy Kyle written all over it....

[B00]

lmao!!!

Sorry, but Craftypig here is right, it sounds like your worst nightmare doesn't it?

[kat2206]

How incredibly rude Craftypig, not all families who have issues are like the idiots who go on there you know, feel totally insulted.

[B00]

Maybe craftypig didn't mean you kat? Sure he or she meant this woman with the kids.

[Craftypig]

Is this the 18 year old son that you were trying to be allowed to live with you but your employers weren't having it?

[kat2206]

I just dont know what to do...?

For once in my life my hands are tied and I really am stuck as to what to do for the best for my boy, he has so many goals in his life, he is currently studying Sports Science and wants to either go into physiotherapy or a P.T in the Forces... if he gets with her/marries her (god forbid) then its game over for him as all he will do is be a baby making machine for her?

[ummmm]

That is a different question. What has that got to do with this? How can someone foresee that a girlfriends friend might punch their son in the face.

[kat2206]

No Craftypig, it isnt... that thread has absolutely nothing to do with me, at all. My name isnt Amanda for a start and my son has always lived with me and I do not live where I work, thank god!

[B00]

well im off to bed now, zonked. Hope tomorrow's a bit better for you kat- good luck!

[ummmm]

Ohhhh....I didn't even open the link that TheShakeperian posted. I just presumed he might have got the right poster. hahahaha....No wonder he hasn't been back to this thread. Posting while suspended and getting it completely wrong...classic!!!

[kat2206]

I like that Ummmm lol... I didnt know that The Shakeperian was suspended... why can't he/she spell Shakesperian or is it a 'play' on words (pun intended)!

[mesmerred]

Kat , I'm thinking that the young lady may be using your son to make an ex jealous. In which case there could be more problems or she may just dump your son and go back to the guy when she has made her point.

Personally I couldn't have put them all up in my home. You are well intentioned but I hope that you haven't brought a lot of trouble to your door. Good luck!

[kat2206]

Thank you Mesmerred, I, too, hope that this "move" isnt considered a permanent one!

[ummmm]

Make sure it's not....