bit pi$$ed tonight

[micmak]

Tomorrow is the 2nd anniversary of the death of my son. Nothing else to say really,38 years old..

[micmak]

Chrissa. I am not insular, I am thiking of you too. i know you are going through hard times.

[lady-janine]

have just found this thread. so very sorry for both of you. could not even begin to imagine how i would feel in same circumstances. all very best wishes and thinking of you and mrs micmak. big hugs to you both. xx

[Dee Sa]

thinking of you micmak, you dont expect to outlive your children, may he rest in peace.

[queencharlotte]

Love you. Am sure he`s up there, will never grow old. Cannot imagine how awful it must be; Gosh, don`t suppose anything really helps, but would he want you to be so unutterably miserable? Have a lovely day, have a drink, and say "Cheers, Son".

[~Wingnut~]

Thinking of you and Mrs micmak today too, certainly puts things into persepctive. Big hugs to you both xxx

[tiggerblue10]

Oh Micmak, I'm so sorry to hear that. As others have said, no one should ever have to outlive their own child. My thoughts are also with you today xxx

[Carakeel]

micmak & mrs micmak, today is the anniversary and I cannot help but think of how you must be feeling. The thing that does sometimes help me through the anniversary of my own son's death is talking to my darling partner, ratter15, about my son. Each time I try to remember more of the wonderful times and less of the saddest ones. It isn't easy and never will be, but I keep telling myself that this is what my Kevin would have wanted me to do ... try and drown out the sadness with the positive, happy memories. I hope you will find a way to do this today and send you lots of love and hugs of support. We were so privileged to have our sons in our lives and will never let them out of our hearts! Hugs! xxx