relationship

[wilkesneil]

are i being funny in saying my 9 and a bit yr relationship with donna1901 was enede by text message today, i finished work as normal spent hour or 2 2geva and she then text me telling me she didn't want me , could i leave our house and she didn't love no more. i feel after this time i should have been told to my face rather than the cowards by text. am i alone in thinking this

[anneasquith]

if i was your OH im not too sure id be happy at you posting these personal details on chatterbank. but i hope whatever happens the children"s wellfare comes first, good luck

[wilkesneil]

kids welfare is 1st, i have got the kids all weekend.
i are still speaking with all her family as they've said they still want to be friends with me..

i just feel i deserved more than a text message

[lankeela]

You are moaning about her using text then putting the details on an internet chat forum? Sorry but I think you both need to get a life.

[joeluke]

lankeela.....wilkiesneil has only posted an outline of his problem, I don't see any names on here so your comment was out of order

.....and yes wilkies, you do deserve more than just a text ending your relationship

It's the act of a coward

[wilkesneil]

thanks for the backing joe, i couldn't do it over the text to anyone, it has to be done to face then you can tell its meant. you can see peoples reactions and body language yet off a text you get nothing.

[joeluke]

It's as gutless as those who end relationships by simply changing their facebook status to 'single'

I'd have been straight round to confront her about it wilkies

[wilkesneil]

i gt str8 on the phone and she wouldn't answer, so i asked her mom if she knew anything and she was dead shocked by what i'd said and yet her mom lived next door. she told her mom and i got my things and went, i had to go today to collect some more stuff, she hadn't been back all night and still not come back ( i have to keep going round and checking on the dog)

[lankeela]

Well you are obviously spending all you time worrying about this, so much that your last question was how do you change your avatar?

[lankeela]

Ah you're not so bad after all if you are checking on the dog.

[wilkesneil]

i have to check on the dog as she wont give a damn about her, i cant take it tomy moms cus her dog will start humping her and my old avatar had me and her which i would have kept, but the little decency she had left was gone with the text so i wanted her not on my pic