Kathy, I did it, I branched out on my own when I was 45 and I have never regretted it, although the parting was painful at the time, since there was no blame on either side, just a parting of the ways. I am happy in my own company, I don't need constant attention, and yes, I agree with Brinjal's comments but people start inviting YOU to things, not you as part of a couple. I moved away and made my own life, which did make it easier, life became what I made it. When I did meet someone (who I'm still with) it was timely and happy - and like welsh's husband, he's away a lot. Once you have lived on your own for some years, you still value your free space. You can do what you want, when you want, without disturbing or upsetting anyone else. Life is for living - I left because I couldn't face a lifetime of "the same" stretching ahead for the rest of my days, I knew there was more out there waiting for me and there was, and still is.