Do parents always forgive their children for horrible things they say

[karma22]

to them?

[pinkfluffo]

awww i do feel sorry for your mum. She sounds too nice! Dont be mean to her just because you think you can get away with it, thats what bullies do they pick on the soft. Have you tried writing things down to vent your anger if you have noone else? You dont want to keep going on like this and being nasty to the people that obviously love you.

[sara3]

apologise, and don't do it again! they must love you... quit this before they've had enough ;o)

[karma22]

I know she is too nice for her own good. But sometimes it does feel like she is trying to wind me up on purpose. What if she is? How do I deal with that without getting angry?

I dont' want to be horrible to them anymore. I hate myself for it

[Mamyalynne]

Meds are not the only option ask about counselling, and remember people aren`t mind readers , while you may be crying inside, your words can make people think you are just stroppy. Ask them to listen and hopefully you can work something out.

[karma22]

Ok Sara xx

I hate being such a miserable, moaning evil b'tch of a daughter.

I probably don't deserve them!

[sara3]

awhh.. she won't be trying to wind you up, but maybe she's tired of being on the receiving end of your outbursts.

go to dinner with them and make your peace.. and think about how to deal with your issues differently in future. counselling may be the answer x

[karma22]

shut up and go away probably no know

[Mamyalynne]

Wow karma, you invited all to the debate, don`t have a go if you hear what you don`t like!!

[karma22]

thanks sara and pinkfluffo

xx

[karma22]

I wasn't telling you to shut up and go away no know I was thinking thats what you were going to say to me.

thanks mamya x

[sara3]

mamya, you may have mis-read karma's earlier post. she was pre-empting what NK was going to say :o)

[pinkfluffo]

If she is trying to wind you up on purpose (which i think people are trying to do to me alot, but never are) then just take it with a pinch of salt and dont let it bother you. Im trying to train myself at the moment to have much better thoughts and i know i will be happier for it. People cant wind you up if you dont let them. And dont forget people can say things sometimes without thinking and what may be an innocent question to her may be a stupid question to you but she isnt to know this. Like i said IF she is doing it on purpose then so what? because if you dont, in your head let it bother you, then she wont be getting anywhere. Just let it go sometimes. It will make you happier.

[Mamyalynne]

misunderstood your reply to No_K, try to make your peace, your parents are always a source of love of you let them be.

M

[karma22]

Yeah I need to do that too pinkfluffo. I feel like she does do it on purpose but it could just be my negative mindset I don't know.

I don't know how you lot put up with me. I sound like a right moaning, selfish, horrible person on here.

xx

[karma22]

:-)

[cazzz1975]

it is your negative mindset that makes you think your mom is deliberately trying to wind you up, she isnt, she tries to give you helpful advice.

I cannot imagine being an adult and phoning my mom to tell her I am bored??!!

Dealing with boredom when you are over the age of 18 is down to you and you alone to deal with, If you are feeling down you need to sort out why you feel down, if their is no particular reason then maybe a trip to the doctors is in order?

[ummmm]

Boredom is a state of mind....!!!!

My Mum is a lovely woman. Really gentle and soft. If I spoke to her like you've spoken to your Mum she'd beat Sugar out of me. At her age she could still manage it as well. You sound like you have no respect and I find it pretty disgusting that anyone would talk to their parents in such a way.

You should really be ashamed of yourself....or come and spend time with my family and learn the meaning of respect.