sqadlet - for that comment I will stuff you with cream cheese and wrap you in serrano :-)
Don't get me wrong - I'm NICE to my BF, I care and try to be thoughtful. But could I live without him - Hell yes, and I do, very happily. Do I need to see him every day, or even every weekend - Hell no, but when we choose to see each other it's nice.
Buffy - I honestly don't think your hubby is going to cheat on you - just keep your eye on those dog walks (otherwise as known as 'dogging'). But in the meantime - do your own thing and take a few walks with other people yourself. I'm not saying be naughty - just remind yourself every now & again you are individuals as well as, what sounds like, a loving couple x