How would YOU cope with having to deliver a death message to the next-of-kin of someone who'd just been murdered, for example, the two young soldiers in Northern Ireland at the weekend?
Being a nursing sister in charge I've had to give the news of death of their relative , even their child , and although it's not at all something you want to do , it has to be done , and while you deliver the sad news you remain calm and compassionate and keep your emotions intact until alone .