I am 31 and had to have a hysterectomy due to a genetic mutant which means I will most likely have gotten cancer unless I had this op. I can't have HRT so am going it alone. You have to think positive - write down all the good things which menopause will bring you - no more sanitary towels or tampax, no more period pains, think of something you always wanted to do and go for it girl! You MUST think positive. My suggestion is write things down - when you are feeling down, read them and all will become clear. I can't have children and that kills me, but there is so much more which this life can offer you.......... live it! Lots of love xxxx