crush

[onelastkissx]

Is there anyone you have a crush on? Not fantasy, off the telly or anything like that, but someone real.

Will or have you said anything to them ?

I have a bit of a crush on someone, he's lovely but i don't know whether to say anything or not .

[Drisgirl]

Yip -he reciprocated -that was enough for me -didtnt go past first base -theres a name for people like me -tease/**** /slag -just thought I would preemt them lol !!

[cazzz1975]

why didnt you dris? you liked him, he liked you...

[Drisgirl]

Im married -thats it -whether happy or unhappilyy.

It was an ego boost thats all lol !!

[tiggerblue10]

I had a crush on a guy at work a few years ago. He ended up being the person who bullied me!

[cazzz1975]

Oh I see!!! very restrained!

[Drisgirl]

cazzz ????

Sorry dont know where youre coming from hun -and I dont know if I want to !!

PM to me -watch what you say -dont be honest -cos its not the best policy !!!

[boogieboogie]

I remember just (as a teenager at school) that having a crush is fun, I wouldn't push it any further but instead see what happens naturally, the best bit is the fantasy.
I haven't fancied anyone since school :(
wish i did.

[cazzz1975]

sorry dris, nothing iffy meant by that! I didnt know your situation!

[Drisgirl]

OK hun xx

[haysi06]

YES...oh,...not fantasy....erm NO LOL!

You should definitely say something, you may get a good response, so good luck x

[onelastkissx]

but im sort of with someone right now thats the problem. half of me wants to say something and take it further but the other half needs to see where things take me first.

[haysi06]

you are 'sort of with someone'? well its ok to have a crush or fancy someone, but you should make a decision re your current partner first, thats only fair isnt it?

[cazzz1975]

otherwise that would be having your cake and eating it

[haysi06]

^^ yes, and I do like a bit of madeira cake now and again LOL

[Katie~77]

What is the point of having a cake if you're not going to eat it?x

[helliebobs]

Depends, if you want something to come of it or not - if you do, then yes, tell him. I had a crush on a friend and I told him, which a huge thing for me to do. He didn't feel the same way about me, which was horrible, but I did feel better for telling him. We're still great friends, hopefully he feels like that too. If you're happy for it to stay as crush, because crushes can be nice little dreams to make your life a bit more exciting, then no, don't tell him, keep it your little secret and lust after him in private.

[lajohn]

I love Crush