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When I die I dont think my soul will ever rest in peace ???

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reception | 11:03 Wed 11th Jun 2008 | Body & Soul
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As I mentioned before I sold my soul to the devil. who plays on my life. mydaughter is getting marrie din couple of weeks. this is supposed to be the happy time of my life but since the wedding was annouced 8 months ago this is what has happened to me:
My beloved sister has had a brain stroke can not even remember me.
My flat is in a mess the freeholder is sueing me 10K damages caused to his cellor from my leaking tap in my bathroom>
my son has had problems and donehis community
my husbend's old man died and he has never seen him for h epast 10 years and now is making a big deal about it.
my car does,nt work
I have no money and taken out a loan for the wedding.
the temple she was gettingmarried in said they don,t do mixed marriages and I had to find another venue.
I work 55 hors a week on �7 an hour to make some money.
My son's new girlfrind dress's like a goth and gets looked at by every one and I like her but am scared for her saftey.
The husbend said he will come to he wedding and who will give her away?
I could go on ........ but you may need a violin .
I am 50 old and no one wants to spend there life with me except one black man but then he has motives. so what do I do???
I am lost.
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Your sister - I'm really sorry to hear that, is she in full time care now? I know it hurts when someone you love doesn't recognise you, I found that focusing on the good times and the memories we made helped me.

Your flat - Were you insured at all? I'd talk to CAB about that, even if you're not insured then try to find out if the landlord is.

Your son - He's paying is dues and hopefully that will be a lesson learned to him.

Your husband - I suspect that your husband is feeling the clench of guilt around his heart that his Dad has died without them ever having rectified their differences. Try to be understanding about what he's feeling and suggest he see a counsellor.

Your car - I'm guessing you don't have the spare cash to have it repaired. If you don't want to sell it, then invest in a bus / train pass for the timebeing.

Loan - You're in the same situation as the majoriy of the Country, so long as you can afford the re-payments then you're fine, if not, can you talk with your daughter and see about splitting the costs and giving back the loan to the bank?

The temple - That's not just your resopnsibility to find a place for the couple to marry, I wouldn't dream of having my parents pick a venue, why can't they do that?

Your work - What do you do? Is there an option for climbing the ladder or moving to another Comapny that will pay better than that and have a 40 hour working week??

Son's g/f - Telling you not to worry is like asking me not to eat, it can't be done. Can you sit her down and tell her you're concerned? I dubt very much she would change her style because that's who she is, but maybe she can help ease your mind.

Give away - Did you mean your husband is NOT going to the wedding? Do you know it's not law for the father to give her away, you can too....

What is the motives of the man who is interested
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Well you have answered all my questions:
My sister can not speak and will not recognize any one and she is having treatment
My flat is leasehold owned and I know the free holder he is a crook.
My son has learned but he is also young like I was once.
Guilt can be bad thing his father treated him like Shhiiiitt for 58 years of his life and gave him a different
Name to the one from his birth certificate!! So whose son is he really?? He needs a miracle not a councilor
My car is a laved or old dog I can manage it
The temple thats a whole new story.
My work there is no more money and no more promotion I am old ( 50) passed my sell by date and don�t know who will hire me?

My son�s g/f well I told her stop dressing like a goth your getting us all in trouble if you want to stay
with my son then stop trying to get him beaton up all the time. Dress down a bit. She said NO so that�s
that.
My daughter�s fealings are hurt about the old man not giving her away. But your right
No problem I can do that.
The other man just wants to own me, I am clean single and very attractive but old so I don�t
Demand a lot I am very cheap date don�t need flowers gifts or taken out to clubs and pubs
I don�t even need to much food just throw me some scarps every now and then.
Sexually well its all over for me I don�t feal it or need it. �there u have it�
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how can you say what you did on family about the black guy and the colour of people in your street and then say you daughter is having a mixed marriage and youre dating a black guy.

how much did the devil pay you?

sorry to hear about your sister

your flat, claim from your insurance, simple

your son, perhaps his past is a link to the trouble the other night

his girlfriend, i thought you were happy that she dressed like that but were just worried about her being bullied, you last post seemd to imply that she was no bother and was just showing her individuality

your husband - youve been posting for a year or so about the man you are seeing and asking what to do about husband. Each time you say you will leave him as he is nothing to you.

try to sort one thing at a time and it wont seem as hard.
I'm not clued up on what a free hold is but if you were insured then your insurance will cover damages caused by the leak. Surely the damage isn't going to be as extensive as �10k worth over a leaking tap?

Call his bluff, what's he going to do, take you to court? I suspect not.

Miracles are not available, counseling is the next best option for your husband to make peace with the last 58 years. He must help himself because nobody isgoing to wave a wand and make it better.

Sorry, but you can't 'tell' people to stop dressing a certain way, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be best pleased if you were approached and 'told' to stop dressing the way you do and it would make you all the more determined.

I can understand your daughte being hurt at her Dad not wanting to attend the wedding or give her away, I would be too, but hopefully you can cushion that blow a little by offering to do it and letting her know you'd be honoured to?

Reception, I understand that things get on top of us all and we can find ourselves wallowing in our own self pity. Have a good cry about everything, then pick yourself up by the bootstraps and try to see things from a better outlook. Some things cannot be changed so we must take it on the chin and go with the flow.

You are coming across with a pesimistic point of view regarding yourself and I can assure you that you are NOT old and you most certainly are not too old to get another job. Take yourself to an employment agency and have a talk with a recruitment consultant and he or she will tell you just what I have and give you an example of jobs that are available. It's not too late to change your career and it's not to late to study for a change of career.

As for that man, if that's true, forget him, he's a waste of time and you will regret entering into a relationship where you are not considered equal or respected.


Get something organised so you can go out with friends once per month at the least and stop thinking about 'finding a man', because the right man will come along eventually, and in the meantime you can be enjoying life.

A man will find it refreshing that you don't need to be taken out for dinner and expecting flowers or gifts and when you do get taken out for dinner and given flowers, it makes the moment all the more special.

Reception, please start respecting yourself more, nobody will respect you until you do x
blah blah blah, snap out of it, and count your blessings rather than dwelling on the negative
Just top yourself no-one will care.

*sniff*
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RevFunk thats funny if you guys are trying to make me laugh then you have succeeded :)
Look if you think you are on a downer then things will get worse.

We've all had sh8t in our lives, just keep your chin up and get on with it ;-)
Personally I beleieve that all that life throws at us can be used as an opportunity to grow in a personal or spiritual way. Find beauty in the smallest things and count your blessings, however small. Whatever does not kill us, makes us stronger!
Is this for real???????
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Ok just let you all know i feel better now I prayed to the devil and told him to get the ******** that attacked my son and I wished long sufferring and pain on them. What goes around comes around. One day these houligans will do something so bad to someone and get locked up and expereience some nastyness. That is what I have asked the devil to do after all I sold my soul to him.
what ever I wish for I get ha ha ha so redcrx you could not afford the devil dot even think about asking the price.
sold ur sole to the devil?
n i thought i had probs lol
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What happened to my son and happens to other people is bad
Look what has happened in Sainsbury in Merton an inecent man has been killed
Row over jumping the que. I am sure you listen to news.

A fight in car park, a dirty look, a comment all this can leed you in to so much trouble
Even death. So lets not take this likely. Lets not pretend that it was just a random attack. No one has the right to
Hit any one this is common assault, that�s why we are in a democratic country and not the third world.

Whats important here is perhaps not the colour of the skin but the damage caused to the skin
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