Have fallen in love.....

[caveman69]

with someone who is not available and who I have no rights to. The pain is indescribable and is destroying me.
Don't deserve sympathy ,I know that but would value the advice of anyone who's been in the same position x x

[logic]

Do'nt agree entirely with legend.
Other man might have more porridge than he can eat.
Other man might not be able to ride his bike.
Go for it, sod everybody else.
Thats allways been the way I looked at it, mind you Iv'e had more good hidings than i needed.

[caveman69]

Agree with bits of what yav both said, thanks 4 replies btw, yep, I deserve all the pain I'm having but at the age of 44 and having been married twice I find myself hook,line and sinker in love, and I now realise that this is the real deal.
Even the sound of his voice makes me tummy turn over, and as a formerly strong, self assured woman I find myself a wreck now.
What the heck am I gonna do ? x x

[iamlargend]

eat another mans porridge

ride another mans bike

thats wot i always do

hth
dth
gth
tit

[cazzz1975]

distance yourself from them, if they are unavailable then there is nothing you can do except to move n and put it down to experience.

Your feelings will lesson over time

[logic]

OH, I didn't reallise you you were a masochist, At 44 you ougt to have more sense, and after two mariages you ought to know the ropes by now,
when i first read your post i thought you were a bit innexperienced. PR@T.

[caveman69]

Thanks 4 that Cazza, wot u say has made sense, and hope to goodness my feelings lessen cos this is absolutely awful x x