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About 10 years ago, I had a one night stand with a celebrity. I have not seen him since.
I am now going to work on a production with him - he is the boss of the company.
If this were a normal job, I would just turn it down, but it is only for a few months, and he is pretty famous so I am keen to do this as he has industry weight and obviously anything he is connected with will probably do well - so it is good for my career.
However - how do act towards him?
Obviously I will not be winking at him or anything forward, lol, but seriously, do I act like we have never met before and say nothing, or do I be polite and perhaps in private acknowledge it and assure him that no-one knows and it will not affect the production?
Should I wait and see if he says anything?
He may not even remember himself! Though we did spend an evening and night together, so he likely will.
He is now married ( though after a bit of research on dates etc, I suspect he may have been married at the time, though I didn't know it then - or at least going out with her - I may be wrong, I am just guessing)
I am going to a meeting next week, and I will of course be professional, but I just feel a bit weird and nervous about it.
I also am concerned that as soon as he recognises me I may be 'let go' for some random reason.
I don't want him to worry that it will be spoken about to anyone else.
I have no feelings whatsoever for him and have no intention of causing him any pain
Can anyone give me any advice of the best course of action?
Thank You
I am now going to work on a production with him - he is the boss of the company.
If this were a normal job, I would just turn it down, but it is only for a few months, and he is pretty famous so I am keen to do this as he has industry weight and obviously anything he is connected with will probably do well - so it is good for my career.
However - how do act towards him?
Obviously I will not be winking at him or anything forward, lol, but seriously, do I act like we have never met before and say nothing, or do I be polite and perhaps in private acknowledge it and assure him that no-one knows and it will not affect the production?
Should I wait and see if he says anything?
He may not even remember himself! Though we did spend an evening and night together, so he likely will.
He is now married ( though after a bit of research on dates etc, I suspect he may have been married at the time, though I didn't know it then - or at least going out with her - I may be wrong, I am just guessing)
I am going to a meeting next week, and I will of course be professional, but I just feel a bit weird and nervous about it.
I also am concerned that as soon as he recognises me I may be 'let go' for some random reason.
I don't want him to worry that it will be spoken about to anyone else.
I have no feelings whatsoever for him and have no intention of causing him any pain
Can anyone give me any advice of the best course of action?
Thank You
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Thank you.
Perhaps I am just worrying over nothing. Hopefully he has a bad memory, or if he does recognise, me he won't know why.
Though what do I say if he says ''do I know you? feel like we have met before'' or something!
Thanks also to Laurence - he has made me all the more determined not to let it affect me.
Perhaps I am just worrying over nothing. Hopefully he has a bad memory, or if he does recognise, me he won't know why.
Though what do I say if he says ''do I know you? feel like we have met before'' or something!
Thanks also to Laurence - he has made me all the more determined not to let it affect me.
wdk - this is a bit like a situation i was in once a few years ago. generally the same except he wasn't married and it was more like 7 years ago and i was with him for a week, but it was still a bit awkward. he was also pretty famous.
he remembered me and just smiled at me and said '' i think we need a little chat, don't you?'' then he just asked me how i was, and said he was now married and would apprecite it if no mention was made. that was cool for me. the production went well, no problems.
don't let it worry you, we all have a past and if you are from the same town they just might cross again and again, but no point in letting it affect the future.
you are right about lawrnce too, he seems to be going slightly mad.
I do hope for his sake he was drunk last night because if not, he needs help.
I suspect lozzer (like it, like it) was actually hoping mention would be made of his own MINOR failed celebrity and is jealous.
perhaps he wanted the opportunity to tell a little tale of his own....ahh the dizzy heights of the sporting world eh? well the local boxing club anyway... hehe
he remembered me and just smiled at me and said '' i think we need a little chat, don't you?'' then he just asked me how i was, and said he was now married and would apprecite it if no mention was made. that was cool for me. the production went well, no problems.
don't let it worry you, we all have a past and if you are from the same town they just might cross again and again, but no point in letting it affect the future.
you are right about lawrnce too, he seems to be going slightly mad.
I do hope for his sake he was drunk last night because if not, he needs help.
I suspect lozzer (like it, like it) was actually hoping mention would be made of his own MINOR failed celebrity and is jealous.
perhaps he wanted the opportunity to tell a little tale of his own....ahh the dizzy heights of the sporting world eh? well the local boxing club anyway... hehe
joko.
its nothing to do with you, so keep ones mouth shut you idiot. Your contribution to this thread has been zero, so don't come on here slagging me off you moron.
dee knee.
Don't make me laugh.
Your post at 01:45 this morning summed it up. You don't want to expose him {excuse the pun} because of his celebrity status, because if it got out............? yet you come on here bragging/dangling a carrot to others about your so-called FANTASY one night stand.
You need help.
Your charlie out of BB i bet, a mouthy b!tch in more ways than one.
Keep dreaming slapper pmsl
its nothing to do with you, so keep ones mouth shut you idiot. Your contribution to this thread has been zero, so don't come on here slagging me off you moron.
dee knee.
Don't make me laugh.
Your post at 01:45 this morning summed it up. You don't want to expose him {excuse the pun} because of his celebrity status, because if it got out............? yet you come on here bragging/dangling a carrot to others about your so-called FANTASY one night stand.
You need help.
Your charlie out of BB i bet, a mouthy b!tch in more ways than one.
Keep dreaming slapper pmsl
i don't recall wdk actually making it your business either.
i absolutely will slag you off -because you deserve it!
all those smacks to the head have clearly had a profound effect on you. pity youve retired really.
youve chosen to involve yourself in matters that don't concern you, & although wdk is doing an admirable job at wiping the floor with you, im entitled to my opinion as you have bleated that youre entitled to yours.
you're an inbelievable cretin, you've not the relevant braincells with which to construct an intelligent & reasoned argument. you are a child who has spat his dummy out, then sat around expecting back up & when none was forthcoming, turned into a mindnumbingly tedious automatron, programmed to repeat the same tired old garbage that has spewed from your own challenged mind.
my contribution has been a lot more useful and relevant than your inconsquential ramblings.
why do you think your personal opinion matters a sh!t to wdk?
your continual insistance that it all lies just makes you look a bit sad, like a rabid dog, rather than convincing others as I expect you were hoping.
youve added nothing to this thread other than your own neuroses and petty jealousies.
that fact you just won't stop just makes it laughable.
wdk has state that shes no intention of revealing -if others choose to try to guess,thats hardly her fault.
as shes pointed out -you really don't read things do you?
youve got this all wrong so just accept it and go away. the dog with a bone attitude, just serves to make you look even more foolish.
and by the way, writing ''..ones..'' when you mean ''your'' in the middle of a badly constructed diatribe only makes you look an unenviable tw@t
if you wish to have a big row with me now, go right ahead, i could not give a toss, i am amazed wdk wasted so much effort on
i absolutely will slag you off -because you deserve it!
all those smacks to the head have clearly had a profound effect on you. pity youve retired really.
youve chosen to involve yourself in matters that don't concern you, & although wdk is doing an admirable job at wiping the floor with you, im entitled to my opinion as you have bleated that youre entitled to yours.
you're an inbelievable cretin, you've not the relevant braincells with which to construct an intelligent & reasoned argument. you are a child who has spat his dummy out, then sat around expecting back up & when none was forthcoming, turned into a mindnumbingly tedious automatron, programmed to repeat the same tired old garbage that has spewed from your own challenged mind.
my contribution has been a lot more useful and relevant than your inconsquential ramblings.
why do you think your personal opinion matters a sh!t to wdk?
your continual insistance that it all lies just makes you look a bit sad, like a rabid dog, rather than convincing others as I expect you were hoping.
youve added nothing to this thread other than your own neuroses and petty jealousies.
that fact you just won't stop just makes it laughable.
wdk has state that shes no intention of revealing -if others choose to try to guess,thats hardly her fault.
as shes pointed out -you really don't read things do you?
youve got this all wrong so just accept it and go away. the dog with a bone attitude, just serves to make you look even more foolish.
and by the way, writing ''..ones..'' when you mean ''your'' in the middle of a badly constructed diatribe only makes you look an unenviable tw@t
if you wish to have a big row with me now, go right ahead, i could not give a toss, i am amazed wdk wasted so much effort on
Oh christ, please can we drop all this now!
Laurence, you have said your piece, I am not in the least bit interested in it, but consider it duly noted and done with and please just go away.
There is nothing left for you to day, so just let me actually use this forum for what it is intended - to help me with my problem
Joko - Wow, thanks for your support. Don't worry about Laurence, he doesn't count so he's just wasting his breath.
Sounds like a similar thing happened to you.
Glad to hear it all worked out for you.
I wonder if it's the same guy, lol.
Laurence, you have said your piece, I am not in the least bit interested in it, but consider it duly noted and done with and please just go away.
There is nothing left for you to day, so just let me actually use this forum for what it is intended - to help me with my problem
Joko - Wow, thanks for your support. Don't worry about Laurence, he doesn't count so he's just wasting his breath.
Sounds like a similar thing happened to you.
Glad to hear it all worked out for you.
I wonder if it's the same guy, lol.
joko.
Wow wee.
Thats a big post with some big words. i'm so impressed {not}.
You or no one would/could put be in my place, your the typical mouthpiece that hides behind a computer who comes on hear spouting your mouth off, then come the real world you crawl into your shell with your tail between your legs.
Very brave indeed.
And no i'm not threatening you, i would'nt give you the time of day you lowlife tramp.
And in case you did read the postings you idiot, i was not looking for back up, i clearly stated that, i put my view across about the other tramp [dee knee} so its nothing to do with you, if you want to get personal with me fire away you stupid bitch.
happyjo. {pat butcher}
Shut the fcuk up you stupid cow, its got nothing to do with you
Wow wee.
Thats a big post with some big words. i'm so impressed {not}.
You or no one would/could put be in my place, your the typical mouthpiece that hides behind a computer who comes on hear spouting your mouth off, then come the real world you crawl into your shell with your tail between your legs.
Very brave indeed.
And no i'm not threatening you, i would'nt give you the time of day you lowlife tramp.
And in case you did read the postings you idiot, i was not looking for back up, i clearly stated that, i put my view across about the other tramp [dee knee} so its nothing to do with you, if you want to get personal with me fire away you stupid bitch.
happyjo. {pat butcher}
Shut the fcuk up you stupid cow, its got nothing to do with you
he he, i love the fact that in your little mind you think I'm using ''big words'' -are you 5 years old?
you need a dictionary?
yes i'm very brave -much like you, ranting & raving like a demented wasp -the failure who turned to boxing because he was too thick to do anything else -failed at that too
you may think bravery lies in being a big tough guy & punching people -i prefer words, what else is there in cyberspace? your knuckle dragging squashed nose, threats don't work on here i'm afraid.
what are you expecting me to do?
come round on the bounce like the neanderthal thug you are?
i realise words are not your strong point, but really you can't think that you've presented a good argument?
its nothing more that venomous vitriol (look it up) that belongs in the playground with the other bullies
and we all know why bullies are bullies don't we?
insecurity and fear
they know theyre inadequate -in every way- so get angry & lash out. sad, so sad
wouldn't give me the time of day?
what are you doing now you fool? you even fail at ignoring people!
how come you've managed to generate about 100 posts to wdk?
you've spouted your crap, why are you still doing it?
i think you hoped your little 15 minutes at the arse-end of fame would carry you on to stardom didn't you?
you imagined yourself on 'question of sport', & 'they think its all over' & perhaps other shows, with real boxers like bruno, eubank, lewis, etc, but you were too sh!t at it, with no charisma
i expect you were hoping you'd be able to charm young girls into bed because you were a 'celeb' but you were just not good enough, & couldn't charm anyone with that mashed up, meat head face
you are bitter and jealous that you're not a successful & handsome film star
ha!
and thanks for the permission to 'get personal' with you, but I rather
you need a dictionary?
yes i'm very brave -much like you, ranting & raving like a demented wasp -the failure who turned to boxing because he was too thick to do anything else -failed at that too
you may think bravery lies in being a big tough guy & punching people -i prefer words, what else is there in cyberspace? your knuckle dragging squashed nose, threats don't work on here i'm afraid.
what are you expecting me to do?
come round on the bounce like the neanderthal thug you are?
i realise words are not your strong point, but really you can't think that you've presented a good argument?
its nothing more that venomous vitriol (look it up) that belongs in the playground with the other bullies
and we all know why bullies are bullies don't we?
insecurity and fear
they know theyre inadequate -in every way- so get angry & lash out. sad, so sad
wouldn't give me the time of day?
what are you doing now you fool? you even fail at ignoring people!
how come you've managed to generate about 100 posts to wdk?
you've spouted your crap, why are you still doing it?
i think you hoped your little 15 minutes at the arse-end of fame would carry you on to stardom didn't you?
you imagined yourself on 'question of sport', & 'they think its all over' & perhaps other shows, with real boxers like bruno, eubank, lewis, etc, but you were too sh!t at it, with no charisma
i expect you were hoping you'd be able to charm young girls into bed because you were a 'celeb' but you were just not good enough, & couldn't charm anyone with that mashed up, meat head face
you are bitter and jealous that you're not a successful & handsome film star
ha!
and thanks for the permission to 'get personal' with you, but I rather
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