boyfriend troubles

[pinkgrl91]

ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost five months now, which is a big deal for me seeing as most my relationships only last a month or two.
things were great in the beginning but most recently all he wants to do is sexual things and he seems to be horny alot more than he used to be. but im not always in the mood to do these things and doing it when im not in the mood kinda takes all the fun out of the idea of it so what do i do?

[laurence2]

Sexual things meaning things your not happy doing?

If your not in the mood, don't do it. So unless you tell him, he will continue to think that you have no problem with this.

Have you asked him or yourself why he is horny alot more?

[lightoftruth]

some men just have large needs. Some men are content with sex just a few times whilst others make lions look like 90 year old impotent men.

Is it because he's just concentrating on the sex for himself? in blunt terms is is just a "wham bam thankyou mam" affair or are you actually being "satisified" when he does feel in the mood?

i know its cliche but you really must tell your partner what you feel. Tell him that he's being a tad too demanding. Me upfront and dont use crumy exuses like a headache etc because that will just make your boyfriend uneasy.

[4getmenot]

dont do it if you arent in the mood. Why would you do something you dont want to do!! Just tell him you're not always in the mood, talkings great you know. :-)