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Following on from dontask question below. And I know many women often wonder, Ok well I do, as it probably applies to me :(
But if you got friendly with a woman, and after a few (yes few) dates you got a bit intimate, and she wore a padded bra, and when she took it off, there was not as much there as you expected. Would it put you off her. Am asking this as my now ex (grrrr) once said to me that I should not wear a padded bra as it gave a false impression to me.
And yes, my at the time boyfriend said that to me! Geez
But if you got friendly with a woman, and after a few (yes few) dates you got a bit intimate, and she wore a padded bra, and when she took it off, there was not as much there as you expected. Would it put you off her. Am asking this as my now ex (grrrr) once said to me that I should not wear a padded bra as it gave a false impression to me.
And yes, my at the time boyfriend said that to me! Geez
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Morning all.
Nowt wrong with Padded bras at all. My understanding of the fairer gender is that sometimes it becomes necessary to wear such an item to boost one's confidence or even to stop the appearance of a vegetable smuggling ring on a cold day.
Any B/F that makes a statement like that deserves to be an ex b/f.
Having been in the situation a couple of times, I think I would consider myself pretty low to judge a person solely on her assets and equally gutter based to be attracted to a girl for the same reason. Sure, it can sometimes be a bit of a shock when you were expecting something different but as is often said about (Some :)) fellas, 'Its not the size of the waves.......'
Here's a poem for ya.
There was a young girl from Penzance
Whose padded bra bounced when she danced
The boyfriends would baulk
but they couldnt talk
For they had socks placed in their pants
Nowt wrong with Padded bras at all. My understanding of the fairer gender is that sometimes it becomes necessary to wear such an item to boost one's confidence or even to stop the appearance of a vegetable smuggling ring on a cold day.
Any B/F that makes a statement like that deserves to be an ex b/f.
Having been in the situation a couple of times, I think I would consider myself pretty low to judge a person solely on her assets and equally gutter based to be attracted to a girl for the same reason. Sure, it can sometimes be a bit of a shock when you were expecting something different but as is often said about (Some :)) fellas, 'Its not the size of the waves.......'
Here's a poem for ya.
There was a young girl from Penzance
Whose padded bra bounced when she danced
The boyfriends would baulk
but they couldnt talk
For they had socks placed in their pants
I think I may be a little disappointed to find that her breasts were real, and not because I like big boobs!!
I think it is a shame that Women need to stuff things in their bra in the first place!!
I would never be attracted to a woman just down to the size of her boobs, I would find a Woman more attractive without all the stuffing, purely because she has no hang-ups on boob size and that she is confident in herself.
I know its not all about stuffing bras to please men, and I understand that it makes flat chested Women feel more feminine etc, I would just prefer my Woman to be more confident about herself!! bust size is of little consequence in a loving relationship!!
But if you are in a loving relationship with a confident Woman with big boobs, HELL THATS GOOD!!!!
I think it is a shame that Women need to stuff things in their bra in the first place!!
I would never be attracted to a woman just down to the size of her boobs, I would find a Woman more attractive without all the stuffing, purely because she has no hang-ups on boob size and that she is confident in herself.
I know its not all about stuffing bras to please men, and I understand that it makes flat chested Women feel more feminine etc, I would just prefer my Woman to be more confident about herself!! bust size is of little consequence in a loving relationship!!
But if you are in a loving relationship with a confident Woman with big boobs, HELL THATS GOOD!!!!
What a load of old rubbish. If a man was dating a woman in her 40s and she was wearing an underwired bra would he tell her not to wear a bra because its a misrepresentation of how she looks because her boobs were up there 2 minutes ago. We all look different with out clothes off and there is nothing wrong with wearing a padded bra for a bit of illusion.
I think half the problem is that guys expect girls to have round rock hard boobs on stick thin frames like girls in porn now. They all say they can tell the difference between fake and natural but they are talking rubbish. I went out with about 7 yrs ago who told everyone I had had a boob job cause I am a little err busty and I wouldn't dream of having a boob job.
I think half the problem is that guys expect girls to have round rock hard boobs on stick thin frames like girls in porn now. They all say they can tell the difference between fake and natural but they are talking rubbish. I went out with about 7 yrs ago who told everyone I had had a boob job cause I am a little err busty and I wouldn't dream of having a boob job.
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Hey make way for a neewbie on ab.
There was a young lady called fritz
she was german and loved it to bits
then along came a spider
who sat down beside her
and started to fondle her bits
the spider got such a big shock
before he could pull out his cuck
her bits disintegrated
and that he just hated
can anyone finish this of as im stuck now
There was a young lady called fritz
she was german and loved it to bits
then along came a spider
who sat down beside her
and started to fondle her bits
the spider got such a big shock
before he could pull out his cuck
her bits disintegrated
and that he just hated
can anyone finish this of as im stuck now
if a bloke went off me for that reason i would consider that he had merely saved me from having to dump him at a later date, for being a pr!ck.
its ridiculous to say its a misrepresentaion or that we are cheating them - we don't see bums, fannys or penises do we? we have to just accept whats there.
so how dare a bloke get uppity about it!
(i am a 38 D so don't have a prob anyway, lol)
its ridiculous to say its a misrepresentaion or that we are cheating them - we don't see bums, fannys or penises do we? we have to just accept whats there.
so how dare a bloke get uppity about it!
(i am a 38 D so don't have a prob anyway, lol)
I think we have to accept that men are essentially visual creatures. I don't think a padded bra would make any difference, because it doesn't enhance natural assess so much as to make them look extremely different from the real size. It probably just pushes them up if you're big chested, and fills it up if you're smaller chested. But in the end it's not going to be very much different. So what's the problem, if it makes a girl feel better about herself? I have never met/heard of a guy who would get intimate with a someone just to say "sorry, they're smaller than expected, can't do it ". Seriously!
